Need advice / opinion

[sevenohnine709]

Ok i do not really know how to ask this since i think its a pretty weird question.

I am a 23 year old male who has always had a fantasy of having me and my girlfriend having a mmf threesome with a well hung male. the idea turns me on, sort of like watching my girl in a porn working with a equipped tool. Now i am average / upper average and have a decent tool myself but not quite ''big''.

Side note my girlfriend has never orgasmed from sex ever. With me or anyone else (she has also never experianced above avg)

 

My wonder is , is there a chance that my girlfriend will find more pleasure from the larger penis than mine , orgasm from it etc.

To the point she thinks our sex isnt as good.

 

I mean personally if i had a boyfriend who i enjoyed sex with then did a threesome who like gave me mind blowing orgsams id crave it.

 

Dont flame me i am just trying to way out all the options to see if its a fantasy that is safer to keep as a fantasy or one that i could act on.

 

Thanks

[savignon]

I'm not sure if I understand your fantasy...you want to participate or just watch? And it's that you want to see your gf be satisfied by a well endowed man? If she's never orgasmed it probably has nothing to do with size and more about something else...so if that is the end goal then I wouldn't pursue it for that reason. Also it would be a lot of pressure with someone watching..?

Is this a fantasy she shares?

Has she talked about wanting to experience a well-endowed man? Of all the things unimportant to an orgasm, I'd argue that size is at the top.

[sevenohnine709]

She has been in a threesome before and said it was enjoyable. However there was no penetration involved. And iwould be participating not watching.

[charity]

no the bigger penis will not give her an orgasm.... but if the guy has experience and patience, knows what to do, and touches her the right way, then he CAN give her an orgasm regardless of his penis size. if this happened and she gets a view of the world of orgasms then yeah she will want more of them, and will probably look to you to experiment more and try some of his techniques. how would that make you feel?

[sevenohnine709]

I have tried every technique in the books. of all my past girlfriends i have never had a problem providing orgasms orally and by gspot stimulation during sex.

I just read their body language to find out what they like.

I can provide this girl multiple orgasms orally / manually and she has never had a guy do that before.

It just like her gspot doesnt work hah. I can use my fingers , a toy , or my penis nothing works unless heavy clitoral stimulation.

so i read somewhere that some girls have their gspot deeper or can only orgasm from deep penetration.

She is on antidepressents and i know they make my orgasm delayed so i always wonder if that is it.

[charity]

ah well that's good then, chances are another well endowed male will not make much difference to her.