ShyGuy444 Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 okay, this is really confusing. There's this girl that i've liked for a while now. Recently i told her my feelings, about 3 weeks ago. After i told her how i felt, she told me how she's had a crush on my for a long time, since i moved heree (5 years ago). So i asked her out. Last saturday we went out to dinner and had a good time. So i tried asking her about us, she said she wanted to take things slow and go out with me more and then develop something from that. So wednesday night, i call her up to see if she wanted to go out this saturday, i knew it might not happen being the holidays, but i tried anyway. She couldn't go cuz of family up here. She asked if i had a good time on saturday night, i said i had a great time and she said she had a good time too. So she calls me back after 5 mins, she had to do something real quick, and then says "i've been doing a lot of thinking, good thinking" then asks me if i think there is a connection between us, i say yes, ask her the same question and she says yes. Then she proceeds to say how she doesn't want a bf right now, how she doesn't want to ruin our friendship. She enjoys talking to me on the phone for a long time at night as friends. But the weird things is, our conversations are only like 15 mins, and it's not every night. And we aren't that great of friends to begin with, we haven't hungout too much. I told my friend this, he's a friend of hers to, they were really good friends last year, and he says that doesn't sound like her at all. He also says that at the beginning of the school year, she said that she wants to have a bf this year. I'm confused cuz she knows how i feel, she's had a crush on me for a long time, yet suddenly doesn't want a bf. Suddenly highschool relationships are stupid and overrated. So today at school my friends talked to her about it, saying they heard what happened and asked why. She said that she didn't want to lead me on, so she might of well of ended it there. Her friend said the same thing, so obviously she called her friend after this all happened with me on the thie phone on wednesday. Why would she call her friend? Does she feel like she's doing something wrong? Feel like someone is telling her something wrong? I'm really confused. I don't think this is actually her talking, i think it's her parents. She's morman, and i'm not, and i think it has to do with that. I feel they are judging me before they know me. I'm a good guy, i'm not one to do anything bad, no drinkin, smokin, any of that, i wouldn't pressure a girl to do anything. Doesn't it seem odd that all of a sudden this happened? So basically i'm asking what you all think, cuz this is really weird, i haave very strong feelings for her, and things were going great, yet now she doesn't want a relationship. Help please Quote Link to comment
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