HE WON'T SHOW UP FOR CLOSURE!!!!!!

[HappyGoAway]

Please let me know how to still be kind in ending something- He just stopped after a trip together & yet he remains insisting "let's get together" as he avoids me, dodges all suggestion and finally said he would be home for me to get my stuff but called to re-schedule for the fifth time in two months. I'd prefer in person but over the phone is an option too to get my kind bullet points of thanks, still like ya but gotta move on clean break and force myself to start counting the no contact days until I stop noticing. Hard to force this though because I miss him. Please help with advice!!!!

[Iceman26]

Give him one more chance to be home to pick up your stuff, and then call the police to see how you go about getting your stuff back. Life is too short to deal with wishy washy people.

[HappyGoAway]

Hey Iceman,

Thanks for the reply- I laughed hysterically to 'Life's too shortt for wishy washy people". This has become my new motto, thank you. He said he'd leave the stuff- and the police really sounded like fun high drama I'm happy to skip. Thanks for the advice.

[Iceman26]

Anything for a fellow Southern Californian!