How many is too many?

[downandout]

me and my girlfriend have been going out 1 year now (i am 16 she is 15) and we first had sex after around 7 months. she has had sex with 4 different guys before me and it was my first time with me. She said that when she had sex with these other guys she was going through a weird stage of her life. i dunno i just feel a lil weird being with her. im not sure what im really asking, any comments would be apreciated tho

[XrucuX]

You feel awkward? But there is a first time for everything...The question is did u like having sex?

If you can answer this then you shouldnt feel so weird, and you should be with your gf no matter how many guyz her past had in it. You want her go get her.

[JoyieGracie]

If you think that it's akward now, wait until you brake up. Sex is very delicate and ruins the relatioships you have with someone if you aren't careful

 

I'm not saying that you are going to brake up, but you two are still young, and there is a nice chance it's not forever. If you do brake up, it will hurt so bad because of your intamate relationship. Some people think that if you have sex your really in love. but just wait to see what happens when the love becomes one sided.

[Tinkerbell]

I can understand why you would feel awkward, 5 sexual partners and she's only 15 years old? In my opinion, that is too much. I hope that you made sure she was tested for STDs before you slept with her, I don't mean to worry you or anything but it's the smart thing to do. Anyway, if you really love your girlfriend, you're going to have to learn to accept this flawed past of hers, and hope that she doesn't go through one of these "stages" again anytime soon.

[downandout]

hey guys thanks for the feedback.

i understand the risk of STDs, we both regually get checked.

Yea i realise i have to accept it and i think i have. i just needed to get it off my chest lol.

thanks

[nexus532]

you kids are a little young to be having sex. No matter how smart you think you are, you don't know everything. But you don't have to listen to me, just wait till you get a life long std because you didn't check the backgroung of your partner.