Slow Club Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 Is it weird that even though I've gone through all the motions related to post-BU and have now found some form of happiness again (basically I'm more or less fine now) but sometimes when I'm at my calmest like just lying in bed doing nothing except listening to music I still think about the ex and sometimes even imagine her holding me? Ok, actually that sounds really weird but is this normal? Even though I'm fine with BU, have accepted and everything... Link to comment
hopelessincan Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 no that's normal. how long were you together and how long since the breakup? Link to comment
Slow Club Posted June 28, 2013 Author Share Posted June 28, 2013 Together nearly 4 years. Broken up for over 2 years now. Link to comment
hopelessincan Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 oh wow. I still think its normal. There is obviously lots of love there. Who left who? Link to comment
Slow Club Posted June 28, 2013 Author Share Posted June 28, 2013 Yeah there is. But I'm fine with what's happened and in many ways not surprised that it had to be this way. It's complete acceptance but also realisation that I'll always care about her. She ended it. Link to comment
hopelessincan Posted June 29, 2013 Share Posted June 29, 2013 have you thought of getting in touch? Link to comment
Slow Club Posted June 29, 2013 Author Share Posted June 29, 2013 Yeah. And we have had contact before but wasn't always good. It's been about 4 months now since the last contact maybe? I just don't think she'd want it, I don't think. Link to comment
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