whenwhere Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 Hey all! First time poster, long time reader. Here's my situation. LONG I met this girl a few months ago that I have been wanting to give my phone number to/get hers. I finally gave her mine earlier this week. She didn't call (only 3 days). I went out to a local bar with one of my friends Friday night and she was there with one of hers. I said hello and and how's it goin etc etc. and went on my way a couple tables over with my buddy. I ended up sitting with her and closing thier tab to start another one for me to pick up. After a little while, her friend went home and she left with me (I payed the tab) to go to another local bar. On the way there we of course chatted. She ended up bringing up the "so what happened with your last relationship" question. I told her it was something I should tell her at another time, which backfired on me by making her even more curious #-o . SO I ended up telling her what happened. In short, My ex broke up with me 7 months ago after 5 years, got pregnant within a few months by someone else, so it's over. She (my ex) was stupid. This was something I really did not want to get into yet . I should have just told her it didn't work out, but oh well, I've got a big mouth. She said I sounded "hostile" towards my ex. Not entirly sure what that means(?). Maybe that I hate my ex now? Who knows. The rest of the night was good. We ended up staying at the other place for a couple hours talking and . I picked up the tab again and we left. I took her to pick up her car and she told me to call her tomorrow. I called and she didn't do much talking. (I think she is really shy, she blushes a lot ) She had to go do some errands so she told me to call her later, I did. She seemed a lot more upbeat this time. I had to end it because I had to go take care of something. She was going to her friends for a little while and told me she would call me when she gets home, she didn't. I think she is trying to play the "hard-to-get" game but I don't want to play LOL. SO I am thinking about not calling her for at least a few days, maybe never. I do think she will call eventually and I know I will see her again in a couple weeks. So we'll see. Am I over-reacting and being stupid?? To me, when someone tells you they are going to do something, like call you, they usually do. What to do? Quote Link to comment
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