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Wow this story is identical to what I am going through right now. I know it is past but it keeps bugging me too! I think what bothers me the most is 10 of them were within 2 years.

Thanks for all the replies. There are times that she gets there but then it just "flies" away. That is when she gets aggravated. I would too. It is by no means putting us under stress. It is just something I would like to be able to do for her. She never tries to have one that way. I am just hoping I give her one that way. At least she is able to have something, and I have yet to hear any complaints. It's not so much a goal, just a wouldn't it be great if type of thing. Again, thanks for all the replies. And of course, more input is welcome.

Hello all. I have been going out with my GF for about 7 months now. I am 28, she is 26,in case you wonder. I have yet to give her a GSpot orgasm. I am by no means an amatuer in bed, she just has a real hard time. She even mentioned she has NEVER had one other than through clitoral stimulation and the most she ever had before me was 2. (I usually give her at least 2 or 3 and a few times she had 6 or 7, but that's besides the point) I have tried for hours upon hours to get her there. She has had amazing orgasms that last up to 2 minutes and said she never had them that good before, but I must conquer this uncharted territory. I am running out of ideas. I suppose it is possible that she just may be unable to, but I never had this much trouble before. I have tried all the tips mentioned on this site and others. I do know where it is, I can feel it. (with my fingers) I guess what I am asking is if it is possible that she is never going to have them in this way. I take great pleasure in pleasing and love it every time she climaxes and I would very much love it if I can get her to climax in this way. Any input vastly appreciated. Thanks for reading.

HEY! She did all the talking! I wanted to just make it 10-15 minutes but she is a talker LOL I didn't wanna be rude. Actually it was more like 80-90 minutes

Welp, She called. Talked for about 2 hours and set up a date and she going to my company x-mas party with me. Man I really need to work on my patience. [-X Thanks for the support all! I'll check in later. 8)

Thanks for the replies. I guess I will call her in a few days or something and see if she would like to go for dinner maybe. We'll see the mood of the call. This is the first girl I've gone after in over 5 years so I'm a little rusty.

Hey all! First time poster, long time reader. Here's my situation. LONG I met this girl a few months ago that I have been wanting to give my phone number to/get hers. I finally gave her mine earlier this week. She didn't call (only 3 days). I went out to a local bar with one of my friends Friday night and she was there with one of hers. I said hello and and how's it goin etc etc. and went on my way a couple tables over with my buddy. I ended up sitting with her and closing thier tab to start another one for me to pick up. After a little while, her friend went home and she left with me (I payed the tab) to go to another local bar. On the way there we of course chatted. She ended up bringing up the "so what happened with your last relationship" question. I told her it was something I should tell her at another time, which backfired on me by making her even more curious #-o . SO I ended up telling her what happened. In short, My ex broke up with me 7 months ago after 5 years, got pregnant within a few months by someone else, so it's over. She (my ex) was stupid. This was something I really did not want to get into yet . I should have just told her it didn't work out, but oh well, I've got a big mouth. She said I sounded "hostile" towards my ex. Not entirly sure what that means(?). Maybe that I hate my ex now? Who knows. The rest of the night was good. We ended up staying at the other place for a couple hours talking and . I picked up the tab again and we left. I took her to pick up her car and she told me to call her tomorrow. I called and she didn't do much talking. (I think she is really shy, she blushes a lot ) She had to go do some errands so she told me to call her later, I did. She seemed a lot more upbeat this time. I had to end it because I had to go take care of something. She was going to her friends for a little while and told me she would call me when she gets home, she didn't. I think she is trying to play the "hard-to-get" game but I don't want to play LOL. SO I am thinking about not calling her for at least a few days, maybe never. I do think she will call eventually and I know I will see her again in a couple weeks. So we'll see. Am I over-reacting and being stupid?? To me, when someone tells you they are going to do something, like call you, they usually do. What to do?