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[robertpaulsen]

ok so me and ex broke up four months ago were still on good terms work in same hotel but in different divisions. well a little while ago me and a friend of mine from work were drunk and me and her kissed. well my ex has found out and has spent my finals week calling and texting me abuse. telling me how could i do that to her and she has never hated anyone as much as me. thing is i dont actually feel bad about it, i was drunk and we kissed, pretty innocent like we are not kids here. so am i just a d*ck or is it just something that happens. like im sorry my ex is hurt by this but not to this extent, i pleaded to stop during my finals and i couldnt turn my phone off for my alarm but she didnt let up.

[SpottiOtti]

I would say that you are not an A-hole. You've been broken up for four months; you have to move on sometime or another. Sounds like your ex isn't ready to, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't.