Hi guys,
Does anyone else here have any insight into this, ive asked coworkers but i am the only married father of the group.
i do shift work in my job, a split of 12 hour night and day shifts. I feel like when i sleep after a nightshift it causes resentment from my wife. I do stay up and get our 2 year old to daycare first while she sleeps on with our newborn. She seems annoyed when i sleep during day, as if i am ‘sleeping in’. She doesn't try be quiet, will bring newborn to my room when i am sleeping, leave doors open, open curtains etc.
i feel like she is trying to get some kind of payback for her broken sleep since having kids, in saying that i took over night wakeups solely on our first after 4 months.
anyone else experience this?
