Redabc123 Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 So if you have been following my post you know I have been dating this guy we have been on 7 dates, last night was the last one. We haven't had sex,hasn't slept over, and we never said we are officially dating...last night on our date it felt off, not that something bad happened just a feeling, I guess I'm right because this morning I didn't get a text until 2:00 saying happy easter, I wished him the same then an hour later he said happy easter.. I said you already said that he responds with no u did, now I'm an over thinker and I could be wrong but it sounds like that text was for someone else, we have spoken all day which is werid.... I don't know if I should throw in the towel or not text him anymore, I like him we have fun together but I don't want my feelings to get hurt, he told me he wasn't seeing anyone besides me but something isn't right. I'm thinking he isn't into me anymore but doesn't know how to say it... I don't know help please Link to comment
Angel Irulan Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Dating is not good if you over think. You've been on seven dates! That's not many and you might not expect any contact on a family holiday. I don't think I would unless we'd made plans for that day. Angel Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Well we can't begin to guess how he feels. Why dont you just let him initiate the next conversation. If he doesnt contact you or arrange another date then you'll know he's not interested. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 There is nothing really here to respond to. If you want something in particular from him, you should ask him. Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted March 31, 2013 Author Share Posted March 31, 2013 There is nothing really here to respond to. If you want something in particular from him, you should ask There isn't really anything for me to ask, if someone was communicating with you on a regular basis and now today you don't really hear from him is that a red flag? Link to comment
Angel Irulan Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Please, it's only a red flag that you do not trust this dude! I read a couple of other posts about him on other threads, and I have to ask: have you been hurt by a cheater recently? Angel Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 There is nothing really here to respond to. If you want something in particular from him, you should ask There isn't really anything for me to ask, if someone was communicating with you on a regular basis and now today you don't really hear from him is that a red flag? I think the term "red flag" is abused here. He's not doing what you want him to do. You can either stop seeing him, accept what contact he gives you, or ask him to contact you more. Speculating with strangers is very passive on your part. Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted March 31, 2013 Author Share Posted March 31, 2013 Please, it's only a red flag that you do not trust this dude! I read a couple of other posts about him on other threads, and I have to ask: have you been hurt by a cheater recently? Angel Not by a cheater just hurt in general, I have been lied to alot Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted March 31, 2013 Author Share Posted March 31, 2013 I think the term "red flag" is abused here. He's not doing what you want him to do. You can either stop seeing him, accept what contact he gives you, or ask him to contact you more. Speculating with strangers is very passive on your part. I only question it because he was communicating alot before ,And would I consider him a stranger if we hang out every weekend talk everyday. Link to comment
savignon Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Questioning his communication level on a holiday when you've only been on a handful of dates seems counterproductive. If he contacts you again and asks you out, then go and have fun. If not and you'd like to know what happened you can always ask him. Link to comment
Cherry009 Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Ithink you are worrying over nothing. Its too soon to be questioning why you havent heard from him, it easter sunday! He could be busy with family stuff, just dont contact him now and see what happens.... Time will tell. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Not by a cheater just hurt in general, I have been lied to alot Perhaps that is morphing you into the land of worry and insecurity. He's not your prisoner. Just call him if you want to talk to him. Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted April 2, 2013 Author Share Posted April 2, 2013 Perhaps that is morphing you into the land of worry and insecurity. He's not your prisoner. Just call him if you want to talk to him. What if he taking hours to reply when I know he isn't busy? Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted April 2, 2013 Author Share Posted April 2, 2013 I feel like since we haven't been talking as much as normally have that he isn't interested what have you guys done in this situation? Link to comment
Cherry009 Posted April 2, 2013 Share Posted April 2, 2013 Just give him space and whatever you do dont chase him. Wait and see what happens, in a week if he is still being funny then just ask him. Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted April 2, 2013 Author Share Posted April 2, 2013 Just give him space and whatever you do dont chase him. Wait and see what happens, in a week if he is still being funny then just ask him. I think your right, I haven't been texting him first but when I do it takes hours for a reply.. It's starting to turn me off Link to comment
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