lovingtheextra Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 So I went on a date with this girl. Everything went great. The date was fun, there were rarely any awkward silences and we seemed to click. At the end of the date I dropped her off and gave her a kiss. A few moments later she texted me saying that it was fun and we should def do it again. The first date was on Tuesday so it's not like it was a while back. I texted her minimally yesterday and haven't texted her at all today. I just don't want to text too much and seem needy. First question is that would she still be expecting me to ask her for the second date. Or should I wait till she brings something up. I had tickets to a concert on the 29th and was planning on waiting a day or two and then asking her if she wanted to go. Does that seem like an okay plan or should I wait longer or shorter or text a little more before asking? What in your opinion would be the best approach? Also what are your thoughts on how often to text. I don't plan on bombarding her with texts but should I at least send one in a day? Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 Don't text. Call her for a second date. How old are you? Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 2nd vote for don't text.....call. Use your mouth, not your fingers....by speaking, emotion and excitement comes thru. With a text -- it is just words. Link to comment
lovingtheextra Posted March 21, 2013 Author Share Posted March 21, 2013 I'm 22. So then when should I call? And should I just text randomly to say hi and stuff or ...? Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 Duh. Would you rather someone spoke to you -- or handed you a note? Just because texting exists does not make it the only method of communicating. And if she isn't a big texter, she will find a call MUCH BETTER. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 Call her today. No reason to wait. Why would text her "hi"? That seems pointless to me and almost begging for attention. Link to comment
lovingtheextra Posted March 21, 2013 Author Share Posted March 21, 2013 Lol okay I got it. There is another thing which I am not sure if it is a factor or not but just to make sure. She is suppose to go home today, I believe she said she would be back Tuesday. Now would it be fine to call her even though she may be with her family? If so would you say the night is the best time to call or doesn't really matter. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 I think you are overthinking. Just call her one evening (not too late) and if she doesn't answer leave a message. She can call you back. Link to comment
lovingtheextra Posted March 21, 2013 Author Share Posted March 21, 2013 Alright sounds good. Thanks for the advice, it's appreciated Link to comment
Fantanos Posted March 22, 2013 Share Posted March 22, 2013 I would do it now as well. Don't wait. She already told you she wanted to do it again. As for texting, you are correct, don't come off needy, play it cool for sure but keep in contact. Texting is a touchy subject in dating, some people love it, some think you shouldn't do it. I think when done correctly you work it and work it well. Don't annoy her and don't send more messages if she doesn't reply to the last one, give her time to reply. Oh and talk about funny stuff! Something funny that happened on your date ect. Good luck! Link to comment
lovingtheextra Posted March 22, 2013 Author Share Posted March 22, 2013 Hahaha I did. I called her yesterday and asked her if she wanted to go to the concert that I had tickets for. She said she would be down, she just has to make sure she doesn't have to go back home for that weekend since it is Easter. Link to comment
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