Michele32 Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 I'm friends with this guy I see at the gym every once in a while. We have great chemistry and flirt like crazy. This has been going on for months. Last Wednesday he finally asked for my number! But he hasn't called or texted me....I saw him today, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. What gives? Why even bother? Have any of you guys done something like this before and why? Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 This is the shy forum, so I'm guessing you think he's shy? If so, it probably took a lot for him to get your number, and now he's going through all the reasons why he should just forget about it and you were just being nice and you don't really want to go out with him and you're probably an alien just wearing a woman's suit and... Why not walk up to him and ask what gives? Link to comment
Michele32 Posted January 16, 2013 Author Share Posted January 16, 2013 i guess this is the shy forum but he's anything but. i was caught off guard when he asked for my number and he did it with such confidence that it didn't seem like he was nervous at all. do guys ever regret getting a girls number?? Link to comment
buddha55 Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 I have asked and been asked/said, "hey! You never called!" Link to comment
laninaperdida Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Just because he flirts with you @ the gym it doesn't mean he's not involved with someone. There's a strong possibility there's someone else. This could be the reason he's put off asking you. I don't think the possibility of some next chick means things won't work out... Everyone is involved with someone, you know? It could just be why he took so long. You can expect the relationship to progress as slowing as the initiation. I think you should wait until you see him @ the gym & help the guy out by doing all of the initiation this time. Go up to him. Ask him to go for Booster Juice after. Take it from there. Link to comment
Michele32 Posted January 17, 2013 Author Share Posted January 17, 2013 I have asked and been asked/said, "hey! You never called!" why didn't you? Link to comment
Michele32 Posted January 17, 2013 Author Share Posted January 17, 2013 This is the shy forum, so I'm guessing you think he's shy? If so, it probably took a lot for him to get your number, and now he's going through all the reasons why he should just forget about it and you were just being nice and you don't really want to go out with him and you're probably an alien just wearing a woman's suit and... Why not walk up to him and ask what gives? that wouldn't come accross as needy? i mean he doesn't owe me anything. that wouldn't annoy a guy, don't they like the chase? Link to comment
buddha55 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 They do like a chase, but by asking why they never called t also kind of says, look bud, I gave you my number and now you don't use it? Skating on thin ice. Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Doing this ONCE comes accross as assertive. Like, why did he ask for your number if he wasn't going to call? If he's a flake or a game player, who cares if he gets annoyed? If you keep pestering him, well yeah, you don't want to do that. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 I've been asked for my number several times and no follow up. Could be a number of reasons. Link to comment
gwnguy Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Guys generally don't like to chase. There are countless threads addressing this issue. Send him a msg and see what happens. Link to comment
Michele32 Posted January 18, 2013 Author Share Posted January 18, 2013 I plan on just joking and saying "why did you get my number if you are never going to use it!?" Link to comment
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