Chall Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 My boyfriend is about 6 years older than me; I'm 19 and he's about to be 25. He's been divorced for about a year now and he also has a 3 year old son by his now ex-wife. I feel like i'm 2nd best. He's already had not only a wife but a family before I even came into his life. I'm afraid that when (or if) we ever get married, that he won't love the kids we have as much as he loves his son. I'm also distraught because I feel like he'll never love me as much as he loved his ex-wife. She was his FIRST wife, she gave birth to his FIRST child, she was the FIRST woman he ever fell madly in love with. How can I not feel 2nd rate? Am I being irrational for feeling the way I do about this?What can I do to work these negative emotions out of my system? Quote Link to comment
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