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  1. tim horton
    oh im sure that she feels a little jealous. she dosent think its fair that she lives for me and im her world. i have kids that are my world and she is my world but im not totaly for her. so it does seem a little imature when i think about it.
  2. tim horton
    if you still have feelings for her you should keep some kind of contact with her. if it took her that long to say "i love you" she may be someone who has never really had that kind of feeling for anyone.she may have in a way goten cold feet. She might think that this is it this is the guy but then thinks that she cant settle down just yet. This might be her way of slowing things down and now starting it up again a little slower.. be nice to her. at worst you have a good friend.
  3. tim horton
    oceaneyes, i am 100% positive that the idea of her own place is just to have an escape if its to much. I can see her point in a way because i cant stand some of my friends kids and i can always leave. She does love the kids i can tell when she does things with them. I think it will just let her ease into something that she now knows all the things involved. And like she said if im not in 100% kid mode i wont have to be there and make us feel uncomfortable. i dont know....
  4. tim horton
    yeah it does seem that way. not to make excuses for her but she has been open about her feelings. she said out right that she is not ready to take the roll of full time parent. thinks that she might miss out on things that she cant do when she is older and ready to settle down on her own time frame.
  5. tim horton
    i kina agree with richgabe! it sucks that your not the most popular guy in town but who cares what 5,6,7 people think. you got it preety good.
  6. tim horton
    ok so here is the story. im divorced with two kids. we have been together for almost 2 yrs and living together for the last 5 months. she is 10 yrs younger than i. im 35. she is moving out because she feels that when my kids are there she feels traped and left out and all that. she thinks moving out will make it better for us and the kids because she will only have to be there if she is in the mood for kids and that goes with it when they are there. is this fair to me? i mean she will be at my place whern the kids are not there but when the kids are with me she can go to her place if she wants. does this seem ok to you? she says it will be fun having 2 places and she will still be around as much or more than now because they are on her terms. i dont know... anyone????
  7. tim horton
    id be pissed if i were him . its not you that i wouldnt trust its all the guys you hang with. guys are like that .. always trying to get some.
  8. tim horton
    hey, i have a topic asking the same sort of question. she is 26 im 35 i have 2 kids . she feels 2nd all the time. he left his ex for a reason right? if anything regarding kids he should be worried you wont love his kid as much as your own and treat his different. i would be just as crazy about kids with my new girlfriend as i am with the ones from my ex.some one replyed to me the other day saying that i should let my girlfriend know that she is #1 because i want her for my life partner . kids will not be with you forever but she will be so treat her like that. it madde me think! anyway dont worry about it to much.
  9. tim horton
    in my opinion you should be her best friend , after awhile she will become dependent on your friendship and need you there to make her feel good. your not tricking her because you love this girl. after awhile cut her cold and see how she handles it.
  10. tim horton
    yeah i know deep down that there is nothing i can do but man this girl is so perfect ... except for the relationship problem..
  11. tim horton
    i am a 35 year old father of 2 one is five and the other eight. bothe girls. we have been together for almost 2 years and she is having major issues with the fact that she has to share me with the kids. she feels second place. we have the greates time when we are alone but i have the kids half the time and thats not enough for her. she feels that she has no choices like where we live because of the kids ,dealing with my ex almost dailey, trips only a week at a time. we have just decided to try taking a break for a bit and im not sure what to expext from this but if anyone has any opinion please let me know.
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