Sweetiegurl20sc Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Ok.. SO its been a year now since my ex and I have been broken up. Weve done the no contact, weve also talked had some fights got mad etc.. Well ive tried to get over him and am still trying. But recently he called and was all sweet saying he missed me and he loved me and for me to tell him i loved him etc... I played it off like i didnt care that it didnt matter i was over him yada yada. Then 2 days later he tells me he is back with his ex before me and was really happy and didnt know why they broke up in the first place... This being the same girl that busted his lip with some wood and was a crackhead when he and i were together now shes "awesome".. This isnt the first girl he has supposedly hooked up with.. but even though it still hurts me alot even if i know we are so over and never will be together again.. I want to get over him so bad i cant stand it but yet a day dosnt go by when i dont think about him and what hes doing and who with.. When will this get better? when will i be able to go without thinkin of him? Please give me some advice Link to comment
johnagent1911 Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Dating helps get you over someone. Link to comment
aireyc Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Join a club. Worry about what you're doing and with who and not this guy you used to date. Feel proud, have some confidence. You can do it! Chris Link to comment
spiderman_56 Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 girl , u need some real good sex ... stop wondering about it , get out there and have fun ..u won't be forever young and sexy u know .. get a life and enjoy it ... 0X you are worrying too much ... Link to comment
ang3l2004 Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 We are on the same level girl trust me I am still in that situation to but not as bad as it was when we first broke up,Anytime you need to talk pm me and I will be glad to help you the best I can because I know how it is I have been there shall I say I am there.Stay strong and get out there and try your best to not think about it Link to comment
ang3l2004 Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 One more thing you are never alone you have yourself and even if you dont have a man or someone there just remember that you have you so take care of yourself girl Link to comment
bleeder Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Find your own two feet first lady. We cannot proceed far with any relationships when we are still down or hurt, and pining for a lost love isn't going to help much. As mentioned in my previous posts about breakups and all, learn to occupy your time positively and spend moments with your family or friends. Before you know it, you would be ready to face the world and take on another relationship. Be well. Link to comment
guy40az Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 You need to start dating again and try to move on as long as you don't get on with your life it will still be bothering you. I would strongly suggest you start dating the sooner the better you will be a better person now and you need to move on and I know its not easy I have had to do it too. It is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. Just remember if your ex is with someone else you need to move on. I wish you the best of luck Link to comment
Empathy Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Maybe there is something wrong with me but I don't think dating helps me very much. I've met a couple of guys in the past 2 or 3 weeks and I was actually pretty interested in them. But being around them just made me miss my ex even more. Maybe I'll just have to meet somebody that just absolutely blows me away. Otherwise, dating just makes it worse. Link to comment
bleeder Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 That's right, Empathy. Jumping onto the dating wagon now isn't going to help, for what you need now is distance and time from the breakup. Dating is only effective when you are emotionally ready and confident of yourself, be patient. I am sure that in time, things will be looking all bright and sunny again. Link to comment
Sweetiegurl20sc Posted October 19, 2004 Author Share Posted October 19, 2004 Hey everyone!! Thank you so much for all of ur comments. They made me think and gave me hope.. Ill let you know how it goes!! Link to comment
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