How can I best handle this situation

[t39babydoddle]

There is this guy back in high school that

my best friend and I used to like and he

was also her first kiss. My best friend and

I had many issues over him and we eventually decided to leave him in the past and stop speaking to him. 4 years on and I hear that he's contacted and they're speaking again on a chat service. She told me this. I don't know how to handle it or feel about it because I still do have feelings for him. What also hurts is that he never, in these 4 years made an effort to contact me, like he has done with her. And now I just don't know how to handle this. She's my best friend and I love her, and yes, their friendship is purely platonic because he already has a girlfriend, but them talking still gets under my skin I have to try really hard to be normal with my best friend, and talking about it to her isn't really an option as we already had this discussion and I told her I'll find a way to get over it. But it's not really working. How can I handle this situation? Please help me, it's eating me up inside

[angrythoughts]

It's not her fault. It's his. Unless you're friend is the sneaky type that devised a plan for that guy to not speak to you again, then it's just him wanting to speak to her. Maybe he feels comfortable with her and is too shy to hit you up.

[t39babydoddle]

No she did not do anything sneaky, but lately when she told him why I was upset (about him not making an effort etc), then he asked her for my number, to try and see if he and I could be civil. And she refused to give it to him, saying that she doesn't want highschool drama starting all over again. While she has a point... Did you think it was wrong of her to refuse? Or did she do the right thing by trying to avoid complicating matters?

[SofijaVaughn]

Nothing burns more than when you like a guy but he likes your friend instead. You're probably feeling some resentment and jealousy and not realizing it. I say you should get on with your life and don't bother getting involved with this guy. Let him and your friend do their thing and avoid the drama.