Going on 25 and still never been kissed, but some HOPE?

[Panther_Dude]

Kinda have some hope...some hope...got some...talking to two women off/on on OKCupid. So I guess wish me luck?

 

I just want my first kiss, nice and long. Yet, sometimes I get weird and grossed out...guess as a way to deal with this?

[Snowy]

I wish you luck.

[The_Seeker]

Kinda have some hope...some hope...got some...talking to two women off/on on OKCupid. So I guess wish me luck?

 

I just want my first kiss, nice and long. Yet, sometimes I get weird and grossed out...guess as a way to deal with this?

 

Um, Buddy.

 

Don't go on a date with a woman just to get your first kiss. It's about knowing a person.

 

Second, it's about the journey, not the destination.

 

Third, you will know when you BOTH feel its right.

 

Fourth, holy cow chillax.

[lostgirl123]

you wont feel grossed out when it's with the right person haha

[IJay]

What grosses you out? Have you had any experience at all with kissing in non-romantic ways, with family, etc?

 

You clearly have a negative association with even the thought of kissing someone, so I wonder where that comes from?

 

Random question, are you sure you're straight? More gross to think about kissing a guy, or less gross?

[blueidealist24]

Yeah, if you feel grossed out you either are looking at the wrong gender or you just plain aren't attracted to those particular women. Well, there is a third option, that you haven't matured enough to consider the idea of kissing appealing, but I doubt that's the case at 25. I know when I was under 15 I did think the idea of french kissing was gross, but then a couple of years later I wanted to do it/liked it.

[Panther_Dude]

What grosses you out? Have you had any experience at all with kissing in non-romantic ways, with family, etc?

 

You clearly have a negative association with even the thought of kissing someone, so I wonder where that comes from?

 

Random question, are you sure you're straight? More gross to think about kissing a guy, or less gross?

 

 

Yeah, if you feel grossed out you either are looking at the wrong gender or you just plain aren't attracted to those particular women. Well, there is a third option, that you haven't matured enough to consider the idea of kissing appealing, but I doubt that's the case at 25. I know when I was under 15 I did think the idea of french kissing was gross, but then a couple of years later I wanted to do it/liked it.

 

What I meant to say is that I probably get weird out or think it's gross because at 25 I haven't done it yet, so my emotions are all over the place. I want it, then I get nervous at times, then think about the germs, then get horny and want it, hence, my emotions are over the place.

 

I will always say I am straight in person, but yea, I have bi feelings or at least bi-curious. I will admit if push came to shove, I rather admit I am bi than admit my religion. I have online and in my world religions class but still...

 

I feel just...this should had happened by now. I never thought kissing was gross until my 20's. It's like a part of me is trying to come up with a reason as to why at 25 it hasn't happened yet. Not to mention STD's.

 

And why would I kiss family? I kiss my cats on their head, cause I love them...but kissing a family member on their cheek? Dude, no. Gross. Hell, I still kiss my two favorite stuff animals I've had since I was a kid. My stuff bear I had since I was one day old, and my dinosauer since 5. I do have mixed emotions. What if kissing a woman isn't all that? Outside of male celebrities I like, I dunno if I will ever want to kiss a guy...I'm mostly attracted to women.