Shy4 Posted October 9, 2004 Share Posted October 9, 2004 Ok, I kinda have a problem. There's this girl that I REALLY like, but she has a boyfriend, for only a month though. I'm still in highschool, senior so I see her only one period. I really like her, we talk about things and when the period ends, she has 2 friends in the class. They leave but she waits behind and waits for me. Is this just a friend or does this show a sign of intrest? I recently got her AIM and YM screename and talked to her for 7 hours, just about things, just talking, you know. I found out that we have so many things in common. I need some help, I don't know what to do. How do I tell if she likes me, we smile whenever we pass each other and say a quick hi and make eye contact. I don't know if I should tell her that I like her. If I do I don't want her to feel torn, because she does have a boyfriend. I really need some help, this is eaten me up, I can't stop thinking about her. I know I have to do something, but I don't know what to do. Thanks. edit- Also, this may sound funny but I want to know. She likes this one show, that she thought she was the only one that liked, but I like it too and told her and she was surprised that someone else liked it. We were talking on the interent while watching the show. Should I ask for her number so we could watch the show and talk about it being on the phone? Yes it sounds silly but I don't know. Link to comment
lillady898 Posted October 9, 2004 Share Posted October 9, 2004 Stay away from her. Regardless how little time she's been with her current boyfriend, she is probably with him for a reason. If you are to tell her how you feel, she WILL feel torn (unless she doesn't like you in that way and tells you so, which is what you wouldn't want for a response anyway). Also, I'm sure her boyfriend would not be too happy that you are making a pass on his girlfriend. It's obviously okay to be her friend, but to move it forward would just be wrong. Sorry, but you have to let it tear you apart. Otherwise, you'd been tearing apart other people as well. Link to comment
Shy4 Posted October 9, 2004 Author Share Posted October 9, 2004 But it feels like she likes me. Wouldn't this be the right time for me to tell her that I like her though, they only been going out for a month and only see each other on the weekends and she might not be that interested in him anymore. Her boyfriend goes to a different school, also she knew her boyfriend before me, so maybe her feelings changed, that's why I feel I should ask her. To me, it feels that I connect with her, some how, I can't explain the feeling. I was talking to someone and they said to tell her that you like her, just so she knows that I do. Like I said before, her waiting for me to leave class, instead of walking with her friends, a sign of interest or just a friend thing. Because like the first week I meet her we kinda talked but she left with her friends, now she waits for me to leave. What about the phone number? Should I get it and just call her just to talk? Link to comment
SKaterBassPLayer Posted October 9, 2004 Share Posted October 9, 2004 yah what they said. There are plenty of other single girls out there that are single. Its best to just stay her friend and just be there for her. If some1 tried to make a pass at my girlfriend there gonna be some fightin! Link to comment
lillady898 Posted October 9, 2004 Share Posted October 9, 2004 It doesn't matter how much you think she likes you or how much you like her. If she doesn't want to be with him, she'll decide on her own terms. It's a respect thing. Respect that she is with someone else and don't interfere. If she eventually does break it off with her boyfriend, then reveal your feelings. Until then, have respect. I know from experience. Early in my relationship with my boyfriend, we saw eachother about twice a week and we didn't exactly see eye-to-eye. I knew we had a lot of potential, but other guys kept interferring when I was trying to make it work with him. It was getting me very confused. It took me about 3 months until my relationship with my boyfriend got to a steady point, where I knew what I was feeling, because I finally told the guys that I didn't want anyone else other than my boyfriend. So don't assume anything. Other guys thought everything was cool and I was soon going to be done with my boyfriend. But luckily, I didn't let go. If you don't think you can control your feelings, do not get her phone number. Link to comment
frizzle Posted October 9, 2004 Share Posted October 9, 2004 Yeah leave her be. Think of it this way if she did break it off with her boyfriend to be with you what's that say about her integrity? Absolutely none. Nothing to stop her doing it to you when another guy comes along and pulls the same thing on her. Link to comment
.Real Talk. Posted October 9, 2004 Share Posted October 9, 2004 i kinda agree with frizzle... im sorta in the same type of situation except her and her boyfriend rarely see each other, even less than weekends like once a month. we were talkin and told each other how we felt, but i told her i wouldn't try to do anything out of respect for her and for her boyfriend...jus stay friends until shes not in any type of relationship anymore. Link to comment
Shy4 Posted October 10, 2004 Author Share Posted October 10, 2004 Ok thanks for the help. But I was thinking, what happens if she does like me but she doesn't know I like her, and that's why she stays with her current boyfriend? Link to comment
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