would you go?

[miss_sunshine86]

Hi -

 

I hope everyone is well. I haven't posted on here for a while, just wanting a little advice to those who know my story. My ex disappeared on 1st April and I have been NC for 2 months. I am mostly over it, I just couldn't deal with seeing him but aside from that feel ok. I am going to a party on thursday and see from fb that his brother is going. Now as far as I remember they don't go out together at all, but I have no idea what he's told his brother about me, and I guess there's always a tiny chance he might be there as I have him blocked on Fb so wouldn't know if he were going and I don't even want to bring it up and involve my friends to see if he's going........

I've been excited about this party for months, not sure what to say if I see his brother, and definitely wouldn't want to see him.

Advice, please! X

[markfromark]

Go and enjoy the party, if you see his brother say hi, if you see "him" look the other way. And hide all his family members on FB. Don't de-friend them, just hide so that you don't get any more updates on your ex's whereabouts.

[miss_sunshine86]

Ex is blocked -

It is just that me and his bro RSVP'ed to the same event

What do I say if the brother asks me about his brother, as in how is he, or something.

"I dont know, he disappeared 3 months ago"?! lol

[markfromark]

"I dont know, he disappeared 3 months ago"?! lol

 

What else is there to say? You don't want to ruin the party by explaining to the brother that you broke up. His brother knows, right?

[miss_sunshine86]

I have no idea.

He disappeared 3 months ago, I haven't seen or spoke to my ex since, I haven't seen or spoke to his brother either.

[miss_sunshine86]

By the way - i have just changed my user name from heartbroken to this.

 

I don't wanna hide away from anything associated with this man. But also i've been doing so well and am worried it will set me back And of course with no idea what I'd say.