is there a way back?

[fortune faded]

Ok, started seeing this girl from school and things were going great, she seemed really keen, as did i. We met up a few times and talked a lot. I called her a couple of times to ask her out and she said she'd like to but she'd never get back to me about it. When I phoned her one time she said she wasn't up for going out and things like that, she just liked to stay in or go out with her friends, which is fair enough. Things got worse and worse and she wouldn't call me as much as we wouldn't see each other as much, i sent her a message saying how I felt and that it wasn't right that she hadn't told me what was going on between us. She never replied, it was probably too much as we'd only been together for a short time. What i want to know is how to fix things, where do i go from here.... give her time or tak to her, i don't want to smother her anymore than i have.

[JynX]

She might just need some personal space right now. Or maybe she has some problems, life family for instance. If that's the case, there really isnt anything you can do except be patient and wait until she's ready to talk about things. Hope this helps some.

 

JyNx

[fortune faded]

Thanks, that does sound like it could be true or maybe I'm just trying to hang on to what's not there. I'll give her space and she what she does. It'll be hard to not contact her but I guess that's what I've got to do. I know there are things in her life that she needs to sort out, So I'll give her the time she needs.

 

Thanks for replying.