Confused

[scotland]

hi im a 14 year old boy and i'm kind of confused with this girl. theres a few questions i would like to ask in this post so here it goes:

i have known this girl (also 14) for about 2years now. i speak 2 her all the time on the internet but when it comes to speaking 2 her in school i get within about 5feet of her and freeze. anyone got any answers as to why this could be happening?? also im not 2 sure whether i just like her as a friend or i like her more than that. i wanted 2 date her about a year and a half ago but she just wanted 2 be friends with me. maybe the reason i dont speak 2 her in school is because i like her as more than a friend and im 2 embarrsed 2 speak 2 her?? can anyone give me tips as to how to approach her in school and start a conversation with her shes always around her mates so i can never speak 2 her alone.. sorry if any trouble understanding this story.. thanks

[lostlove]

Whenever i freeze around somebody, it's because i don't know how to deal with them. I am an extremely shy girl, and i have trouble talking to people. Perhaps you are similar in this way.

 

If you want to ask her out, just do it. Just make yourself do it. You have more will power than you hold yourself accountable for. I wish I had asked out the person who I like, instead of cowering, but it's too late now. Don't wait until it's too late. If you can't just do it, then maybe you could try sending a letter to her.

hope this helps...

lor

[i_hate_the_world47]

Well,your shy,obivouskly.That isnt a bad thing,youjust need to over come it.Its easier to talk on the internet because your not face to face.You cant see her facial expressions and what not.But if you like this girl,then just try to speak to her.Small conversations at first then gradually,try to ask her out.Good luck.

 

~Meagan~