forgot25 Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 Hello everyone! I’m from Greece. I’d like to talk about a relationship I had, with the man I love, but unfortunately it ended .. I'm 21 and he’s 24 .. We met each other in university, we’re in the same field .. He was impressed and showed too much interest, and we were very well together ... We spent all the time together, and finally lived together very soon ... We did many things together .. He showed me that he loved me .. We spent the whole day together .. The truth is that I was a bit jealous with him more than normal ...But he accepted that ... Our relationship lasted 2 years ... When we left the city where we were studying then came the distance (geographical distance) ... Then, he went to work for a month in Germany (things were worse then between us). I was jealous and we were fighting all the time and this became worse with the distance .. He said that he began to think the geographical distance and he couldn’t bare the way I was treating him any more ...I tried to change his mind with no results... After than he had to go to the army in Cyprus ... I stopped communicating with him, and when I did that, he started to communicate with me .. He said he loves me , he sais that he’s afraid ... he said that I was the biggest part of his life and he ‘s a coward ... I did nothing and he went on to say that he thinks that we could still be together .. I began to hope again and one day I asked him if he wants to be together again .. And he said that we can’t be together.. I’m about to go crazy .. I love him .. This is hurting me so much.. What should I do; I do not want to lose him for ever .. Thank you for your time! Link to comment
Destiny78 Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 So do you still have the distance between you two? I'm assuming you do. It's so hard to be in a long distance relationship. But besides that, if he said that you can't be together then he may not want to get together again. I feel so bad for you, but if he doesn't want to pursue a relationship then there is nothing you can do. Link to comment
forgot25 Posted February 13, 2012 Author Share Posted February 13, 2012 So do you still have the distance between you two? I'm assuming you do. It's so hard to be in a long distance relationship. But besides that, if he said that you can't be together then he may not want to get together again. I feel so bad for you, but if he doesn't want to pursue a relationship then there is nothing you can do. I'm thinking of telling him to meet at some time in the future.. Maybe when he finishes his Army obligation... Because he might be under a lot of pressure now... What do you think? Link to comment
engraved2008 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Long distance its hard..but remember one thing true love will not die.....time will tell Link to comment
nannah Posted February 27, 2012 Share Posted February 27, 2012 well, it's true he might be under lots of pressure right now, and if he is acting confused, let him try and figure it out on his own. it could be hard, but it's a wiser choice and gives him what he needs - space, and affords you self-respect as well. imho Link to comment
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