help me please

[thedoors50]

k so theres this girl at school weve been really good friends and then she just stopped talkin 2 me doess ne1 have ne ideas that might have happened please help me please

[sweetpea4670]

You didn't provide too much info about the situation, but if I had to guess based on what you said, I would say that she probably had somewhat of a crush on you and maybe realized that you weren't interested if she wasn't getting any signals so she backed off. I was in a similar situation once where I was friends with a guy I had a big crush on, but my intentions were to go out with him, not just remain friends, so once I realized that he had girlfriend, I just kinda drew away. There are tons of possibilities of what's actually happening, so maybe if your provide more information, I could have a better understanding of the situaiton.

[thedoors50]

well yeah maybe the she has a crush on me situation might be it please tell me how to fix it can i have ideas on fixin it

[sweetpea4670]

Well, are you interested in her romantically or would you like to continue being just friends with her? Either way, you're not going to be able to "fix" the situation without talking to her. You can speculate about why she doesn't talk to you anymore, but you won't know for sure what's going on unless you ask her what's up. Once she gives you a reason (and it could be something very simple like she suddenly got very busy), you can deal with it from there. If it turns out that she's romantically interested, and if you are too, then it'll work out great. If the problem is something else, then you decide what to do whn the time comes.

[thedoors50]

isnt anyone gonna help me

[aireyc]

As sweetpea said, we need information. Supply it and we can help.

 

Chris

[The Enigmatical Mr X]

Gotta help yourself little buddy. The only real way to know what's going on is to ask her, to go up and say "What's going on, I thought we were friends?". All you can do is tell her how you feel if she doesn't want to talk about it. After that, no-one can say you didn't try and if she doesn't care, maybe she's not everything you think she is.