are we together or not ?

[vickyx]

my boyfriend of two years has joined the r.f.a on monday and before he left we broke the relationship off because we were both scared of getting hurt. he also didnt think it would be fair on me as he wouldnt be able to be there for me all the time ie .. calling me and sending letters and that he wanted to consontrate on hes work. but the thing is we made a commitment to each other that we would wait for one and other and that we would be together again.he has also said that this would be a good thing to find out if were ment to be together because this is our first love for both of us ....i miss him so much and so scared of loosing him to someone eles. xxxxx

[Protex]

You should be asking him that question.

[vickyx]

trust me i have tried xx he dosnt talk about hes feelings its all guess work with him he has always been like that ... its nice sometimes because when he dose say something then you know he means it xx

[Protex]

I don't think anyone here will be able to tell you how he feels.

 

YOu really need to sit down with him and tell you that you need to know and that it's very important to you.