trustno1 Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 My Gf and I love eachother very much and have a grea time together. She was open with me about being abused when she was 7...I was crushed by it....I understand that this has alot to do with how she handles our relationship. She doesn't like to hug or kiss...put it to you this way ....its always on her terms whenever our lips meet. that was the major kind of abuse as there was not intercourse involved (thank God). Our love life is great to be honest and I have no issue at all there....I just don't know how to handle the unaffectionate aspect of her....very hard to deal with , especially when I am right next to her and would love to give her a nice hug and kiss but always feel like I have to ask permission....any suggestions? I know I will need to communicate to her on this soon....its frustrating although I respect what she went through and always want to do right by her. Link to comment
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