LightInTheSky Posted November 17, 2011 Share Posted November 17, 2011 Ok so i've posted my story on hear before and since then although it has not been long I have come a tremendous way in the moving on process. I am now posed with a new problem. I'm hoping one day me and my ex can be on friendly (although not friend-friend) terms, if that makes any sense. We had a relatively nice break-up, no fights, no anger, just issues to do with the time in our lives, our age, and some compatibility stuff. In 2 days I must start working with him again. We met at work last season and I have nooooo idea how to handle this. The few times we have run into each other at university have been very awkward even though when we broke up we said we would be fine working together and we didn't want to be enemies or anything like that. So guys here is a question for you, as a dumper are you ever fine with being on friendly terms with the ex a few months after a clean break-up? If you weren't ok with friendly contact what were the reasons for that? Were they fixable reasons or permanent? So far he has made no attempt for real contact except for the awkward "hellos" at school. Keep in mind my goal is NOT to get back together but to establish friendly contact so we can work well together. We were a big part of each others lives and got each other through some tough times. I want to respect his space but i'm beginning to get worried about work this weekend. Link to comment
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