Daniel Lee Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 Long story, I fell in love with my best friend since elementary school. We're after our college years now, and for the past 7 months he's been dropping me hints and I've been dropping him hints. I went out of my way to get him loads of gifts, especially for his birthday around four hundred something getting him a game card, I-pod classic, his favorite sweat shirt. He told me he really appreciate it and I'm on his number one list and, very thankful. I physically flirted with him and he did it once or twice back. Lots of locking eye contact, and its not those might be ones because they last for more than 5 seconds. One time It felt so awkward staring at me I had to say something to him to make him stop looking at me. He asked me before, just us two in the car, "So do you have a significant other yet?" Either I'm crazy or he wants to know if I'm available? And another time we had a planned movie on Saturday with four other friends. He couldn't make it so we canceled it. Instead, he private message we, you want to go to the movies on Friday with me if you don't have work? So finally I decided to cut it clean and tell him I like him on my birthday. My friend told him we had a little get together on a Saturday night, he promised to show up. That day, I hanged out with my other two best friends until the night time came, where I would see him and tell him face to face. We waited, and waited, and waited for 3-4hours. Called, text, aimed, no respond. We finally got tired and we went out to dinner and just when my friend was about to drive me home, he text me saying he was a bit sick and had a small headache, hope I still had fun. I was very disappointed that he broke his promise and I didn't get my chance to tell him, and he didn't as much as acknowledge the fact that he so claimed "I'm number one on his list" to get me a birthday card. When my friend drop me off home, I gave her a letter I kept in my journal about my feelings for him. She lives near him so she gave him the letter that night. The next day, a Sunday he wrote me along Facebook message saying why there is a lot of reason why its no, and that he played for the other field. He went on and on telling how great a person I am, and told me to forget about him, don't want to pain me. I was very hurt about yesterday, and I was hurt more when he said there is a lot of reason why its no. I mean a no is a no, I get it. So I went into depression mode. At work, with my other friends, and at home. I complete stopped talking to him. 5 days later, he tagged me in a note on Facebook, saying answer these question and post me as your friend when you complete it. Its one of those random question about me things. I ignored that. The next say, he sent me a long message again saying, how he knows one week won't be enough to make us friends again, and how he miss talking to me like a school girl, and how he would want to talk to me soon. He wish we find love and support as friends again and hope I will have a good weekend, p.s my dear friend. I ignored that because I'm still upset about my birthday and the rejection. I decided to lessen my sadness and not spend anymore negative energy on something I don't need to, I delete him off all my game list and Facebook. Of course during this time, I talk to my friends about what happen and how he made my birthday a nightmare, saying how he cared so much about me. Even as a friend he could of done something more, and should more respect. Let alone he consider me one of his close close best friends "so called number one on his list." I know he was sick, I already forgave him for that part, because I told him the next day before he rejected me. I planned for the worst so I'm avoiding things that reminds me of him. I guess he found out I delete him off Facebook, and everything else, since my usual friend would see me on and not him. Just 2 days again He tried to call me 3 times in a row, I couldn't answer him because I didn't want to bring up those bad memories again. But he kept calling, I told my friend to tell him to stop because I couldn't answer him and he is pushing it way to hard on me. My other best friend told me today, he really want to clear things up with me and he really really miss me. 8/11 of my close friend thinks he a jerk for doing all of this, and he wants you back because he realizes how much attention you give him, not only those gifts, but he is feeling ashamed. So I told her, you know what he did that night and what happened so far, I have a reason to be acting like this. So right now I don't know what to do. What does he really want? And What should I do? Link to comment
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