Personal Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Hey Guys hope your all ok, I have posted alot on here recently so ill just give a brief qauick description of whhat went on. Myself and My x where together for 14 months we finished in March but remained seein eachother until May (I went to America for 3 months) she said to me before i went she wanted us to start over which again we did starting right there and then so i was due home in August and i had stopped e-mailing her and calling her as much the last few weeks before i came home which she got annoyed about and we broke up AGAIN. The reason for the break the first time was because i didnt care for her enough she felt and that id always brush things under the carpet and things of that Ilk. So i come back and we had already booked a holiday didn't go so well. Then with time to reflect i started to realise i really did love her and have tried since the end of august to get her back. We again have had mixed reactions i believe she is trying to move on she has been on a date with a lad in the army (1 date as he went away a few days after the date) and they have been messaging ever since. She has told me "He takes my mind off you, and i do like him but i don't have strong feelings for him because despite what you may believe am still very much in love with you". We did sleep together a few weeks ago her head has been confused unfortunaly i had slept with another girl (Drunken 1 night stand) who was a friend of one of my ex's friends so it got back to her. I had told her i had slept with nobody. Anyway that was 3 weeks ago we talked for a few hours on the phone on sunday were she told me "I want to go and meet other people and at least give myself the chance to see how i feel" Also "I do think/hope we end up back together you have changed so much and i love the person you are now" The problem is she has known she can have me whenever she wants i say ill go NC the longest i have lasted is 10 days (she also messages me or hints at things on twitter). I'm 100% now going to try and move on i messaged her 10 minutes ago telling her that i know what her game is (keep me there until she see how it goes with the army lad.) I need help in moving on, i also feel that if i give her time away from me she will realise what we had.... The lad from the army doesn't come home for another 6 weeks. Any advice?? Thank you Link to comment
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