notafraid Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 It's 2:00 am and I cannot stop thinking about this guy. I am having a similar problem with another man that I am very attracted to but who seems almost eeriely shy. I have been working in this coffee shop for about one year and a lot of men come into this shop, most of whom are nice enough and they do talk to me. Some of them are nice enough so I go along with it, it's part of the job. Anyways, there is one guy who started coming in to the shop about 6 to 8 months ago. He would come in every week at the same time and I never really noticed him until one day he came in and he was in his workout wear......all I have to say is WOW! Not sure if he did it on purpose but he looked pretty hot. I know I've done it before when I wanted someone to notice me (ie. dress up really sexy and see what happens). After that, I noticed that he's pretty hot even without the workout wear. He always comes in around the same time and one day he came in two days in a row and I didn't expect it...I got all jittery and nervous around him....I'm 40 years old what in God's name is wrong with me? So I thought I scared him away because he didn't come in for two months maybe more.....I was so disappointed because I felt like a dysfunctional fool. I feel like he's literally reading my mind and my every move, because he doesn't say a word, just places his order, watches me make his drink and leaves. This is very strange to me because everyone else is so talkative and friendly....there's banter, except with him.... Anyways, he finally came back just this past week and he looked so cute but I was SOOOOO nervous because I really thought I would never see him again. So I asked How are you and he also said "Good and you?" and then he placed his order and just stared at me for two and a half minutes. He seems very nervous as well, he fumbles a lot when he goes into his wallet to take out money. He's around the same age as me, MAYBE a couple of years younger, but still it surprises me that he would be nervous, I mean he's a good looking guy. He seems very down to earth just like the boy next door.. and just like the kind of guy I am usually attracted to..except I can tell there is another side because I;ve seen him in his workout wear.....he is in tremendous shape. Am I wasting my time? What should I say? I deal with men all the time, but I have no idea how to handle this one..... HELP!!! Sophie Link to comment
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