wilyone 11 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Hi guys, I've been dating this guy for several months, neither of us has said the L word but I definitely am feeling it and I kind of think he might be too. This weekend in the heat of passion he moaned my name. He's never done this before and it caught me off guard. I really liked it. I was pretty buzzed and I can't remember if I was moaning his name first lol. I can't imagine myself saying a guy's name during sex if I wasn't in love or at least really into him. What do you make out of this? I know I shouldn't try to read into it, but when a guy expresses very few feelings and emotions you take any crumb you can get and analyze it. Thanks, WO Link to comment
22n32 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 I once heard from an ex girl, if I guy only says the L word during sex its not a good thing.. because its sex he loves not u.. Calling eachothers name is nice and sweet in the moment of Passion.. I've been called and I called my partner a lot worse then just there names Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 You moan their name because what ELSE are you suppose to moan? Link to comment
22n32 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 You moan their name because what ELSE are you suppose to moan? There's a lot of diff things u could moan.. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 There's a lot of diff things u could moan.. Yes, but it's their name. No need to look for feelings in a single moan name. Link to comment
22n32 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Yes, but it's their name. No need to look for feelings in a single moan name. I agree, first time OP heard it so it was new to her.. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 I would start laughing. I once had a guy say "I want to make love to you" during sex. LOL Link to comment
FathomFear Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 What value could there be in trying to read into something like this? I swear it's almost as if some people really enjoy treating even the most minor thing as an opportunity to delve into psycho-analysis. lol. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 True be glad he didn't say someone else's name. You should be like yes! I think it's bad to get into a habit of names during sex. It's almost as if he is reminding himself who he is having sex with and is repeating it so much that it comes out. Link to comment
MyNinja Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 I wouldn't read too much into it. When people are into the heat of the moment all kinds of sounds and words come out, lol. Does he refer to you by your name in non-intimate situations? Link to comment
wilyone 11 Posted September 20, 2011 Author Share Posted September 20, 2011 I wouldn't read too much into it. When people are into the heat of the moment all kinds of sounds and words come out, lol. Does he refer to you by your name in non-intimate situations? Thanks, no he only uses my name occasionally in an email. I can't even remember him ever saying it during a date. Link to comment
MyNinja Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 Hmmm, interesting. It seems all his focus was on you during your intimate moment with him and he expressed his attention on your by saying your name. I'd take that on a positive note, considering he rarely addresses you by name. Link to comment
offplanet Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 He might have done that because he loves her! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 It sure beats him calling you Ma'am or Miss.. Enjoy the moment. Link to comment
calichick007 Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 I definitely would not read anything into it. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 Nothing to be concerned about. It's basically just saying "Wow this feels so good". Within 7 months it should feel easy to say someones name in bed IMO. Can't really see any negatives in this. Link to comment
hrtlsngl7 Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 He might have done it because he had a REALLY good orgasm. One is not very composed while climaxing. I've mistakingly done so (called out girls name), otherwise take it as a good thing. Link to comment
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