bri427 Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 Decided its been while since ive posted and i knwo some of you are in need of some proof it gets easier as time goes on IT DOES! Lets see...im a little over 1.5 years after me and the ex split. wow how time flies. time changes people. time heals. it was a rocky journey, still is at times. but im alive, and im doing ok...ill continue to do ok. does it still hurt? at times yes. not nearly as much as it once did though. ive made peace with us no longer being together. i miss him, the old him. i miss what we were suppose to be and stand for. our time has been long gone. if ure new in your breakup...hold on. dont make a fool of your pride and beg or plead for them to come back. right now, at this time...this wont make much sense. in time, the pieces will come together. trust me, it gets better. if your wondering "do you guys still talk"....no we dont. i moved out of state 4 months ago and ever since then, weve drifted apart and left the past in the past. we struggled with the whole "do we be friends, do we talk, do we go NC" thing. i cant say which route is best...different people require different approaches. my best advice with that is... do whatever is going to help you heal as an individual!!! rule #1: dont try to bring them back if they walked away. let them see what life without you is liek so they can make the best judgement for themselves. dont bargain with them or promises changes in hopes they will ahev a change of heart. theres a reason people walk away, we may not like it. but we do need to respect it. always remember...this pain wont hurt forever. you'll grow and learn from this. love is beautiful, so never regret that you did love them. love is not a promise it will be forever...love is to be cherished while you have it. you'll have it again Link to comment
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