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Alone in a big city - first night out tonight


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So after a month of living here I'm finally going to make the leap to go to a bar or something. It's hard because there's going to be huge crowds of friends at these bars... i live kind of in a college town (though I graduated).


I just don't how to go about doing this without feeling awkward. I don't want to be the guy at the end of the bar alone... but at the same time I don't want to sit in by myself again.


I'm newly single and just kind of want to meet friends but I don't want to have to get crazily drunk... I kind of just want to casually sip a beer and hopefully someone strikes up a convo with me!


Any suggestions?!?!

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If you go out to meet people, and then plan to sit back and hope others approach you - you'll end up disappointed.


YOU be the one to start a conversation - talk to some guys about sports - ask some girls if your shirt is good color, as your neighbor said it was weird - whatever. Just be the one to initiate.

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