slammin16 Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 I remember when people use to tell me the more time that goes by you will only remember the goods times and the negatives will fade... Well they couldnt be more right! even though I was the dumpee I can only remember the goods times we shared together, all the negative emotions have basically vanished and I was wondering do dumpers feel the same way too? I am not interested in reconcilation, more wondering if dumpers look back at the fond memories? Link to comment
Danny77 Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Im almost certain they do. They look at the good things, but sometimes they validate the dumping by remembering some bad things. You only remember good things as you are putting them on a pedalstal. Im doing it too. Sucks. Link to comment
slammin16 Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 The problem is I cant remember the bad things about her so it SO hard to take her off that pedestal you know? Link to comment
dramallama Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 It doesn't stay like that forever though. In time the good memories will lose their sheen and the relationship will settle into something neutral and more reserved for the past. Link to comment
dramallama Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 The problem is I cant remember the bad things about her so it SO hard to take her off that pedestal you know? Just think of her taking a dump on the toilet. lol Or all the annoying things about her. There must be some things. Nobody is perfect. Link to comment
ferna3069 Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 im starting to remember the good times to. the onlything for me is that the way everything ended is hard to forget Link to comment
Danny77 Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 The problem is I cant remember the bad things about her so it SO hard to take her off that pedestal you know? I so know dude. I can't remember the bad things about her either. Although I do remember that there were bad things, things I hated during our relationship. Try this one... She quit on you, she quit on your relationship. She chose a time to leave that was best for her and then left you. Or this.... All those "forever"s and "Ill always love you"s were never true. Try to remember the times you fought, how many times maybe you gave in just to make peace. All those times she couldve just conceded to smooth things out. Any of these helpin? Im there with you bud. She's like an untouchable angel to me sometimes. Only after we broke up tho.... strange that hey? Link to comment
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