Men and Women, please tell me......

[Mike_Wazowski]

This one's for the Women: What would upset you more....

 

A) Your man has an affair just for sexual satisfaction...no emotion involved

 

B) Your man has an affair and their is emotion involved...Both parties have strong feelings for each other......

 

 

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Also.....This one's for the Men:

 

Guys..what would upset you more:

 

1) Your woman has intercourse with another man(only intercourse)

 

2) Your woman performs oral sex(only) on another man nad he finishes in her mouth.

 

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Finally for Both Men and Women:

 

Which do you think is the More Intimate Act:

 

A) Oral sex

 

B) Intercourse

 

 

Thanks so much...these answers will provide me with some much needed knowledge on how we as People think!

[sachadesousa]

wow thats a tough situation

 

-i think oral sex is more degrading for the female, and if she is willing to risk so much self esteem on some other guy its the worse of the 2

 

-intercourse is more intimate, but oral is more....open

 

have fun

[bubsjojo]

woman: A&B would both upset and would most likely end my 14yr. marriage, but when I was a teenager and in a serious relationship w/ a BF and I wasn't ready to have sex {still a virgin} I would tell me to go elsewhere to get laid, we'd break up for a day he'd get laid and come back . This went on for 3 yrs and right about the time i felt ready to have sex my family moved out of stste. I still wonder to this what'd he be like in bed.

 

Oral sex done correctly is more intimate.

[Ravens_eternity]

i'm a guy but i'll tell you both male and female

for woman/girls i would say B

because knowing that the one i love is cheating is bad but

and know that i'm not makeing my lover happy sexuly suck but not making my lover feel and get the love from me and going other place for it too really sucks

 

for the one about guy i think is alot harder

but i pick B because i get sex with my girl all the time but oral is kinda a thing for her to show how much i meen to her and willing to do for me

 

kinda like girl that do porno they have sex any way but some girl will will not kiss or do anel sex becasue they leave that for there husben or boyfriend

 

o would say both but i think you want me too pick one

i would have to say A but only if both are getting it

thanks for reading

[twinkle]

it would upset me more if my partner was seeing someone else and had feelings for them. It'd still upset me a LOT if he was going to someone else for sex, but I could cope with that more than if he was in love with her, and she with him.

 

And I think intercourse is far more intimate than oral sex.

 

Just my opinion!

[chilla]

I'm going through this right now and it is much more hurtful when feelings are involve. It is heart wrenching and the thoughts in my head of my hubby performing oral sex on her kills me more than the thought of intercourse.

[peanut15]

Tough one....

 

Acutally, both would upset me more...both acts means that there's something missing from me that my husband needed. I know both emotionally are different however the reasons are the same and that apparently there was something that I didn't have that my husband found in someone else (actually he did as my husband has a physical affair with someone).

 

Personally, a more intimate act is intercourse however to some people it may be one in the same.