slammin16 Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 does anyone ever wonder about the next relationship there ex is in or will be in? is he/she making them happier then we could? will they get married/have kids? will it last a long/short time? Link to comment
Bankkkai Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 we all do i think, but i personally try to cut those thoughts or ignore those by thinking of how awesome i am right now Link to comment
One of many Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 Yes, I foolishly lost a girl just yesterday. She was the second person who I had ever loved, the first ended over 8 years ago. I wonder where the second is going to end up. She was perfect in every way. Link to comment
little_buttercup Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 Sure, I wonder about it. I just can't focus too much on my ex now, because at this point my well-being is the priority here. Link to comment
Chris Knows Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 Me = amazing. Ex = not so amazing. So No. She's missing out, not me Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 is he making her happier then we could? Probably. For now. will they get married/have kids? Ha ha. No way. will it last a long/short time? Dunno. But you left one out! Is he laying the pipe to her as well as I did? no chance in hell of that. Link to comment
Sjan Posted April 27, 2011 Share Posted April 27, 2011 Yes I wonder that for sure so now and then, and when I think of it, it hurts! is he making her happier then we could? Probably. And that hurts, cause I felt like a rookie in my first ever relationship, she was my first serious girlfriend. Everything was new for me, I know alot better now, but it's to late (grrr) will they get married/have kids? I don't know...I have double thoughts with this, it's better not to mention them, lol! will it last a long/short time? I don't know either.... Do I hope it? ... hmmm, no comment! Link to comment
cantcry Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 I find myself wondering these things but when I catch myself, I try really hard to think of something else. No amount of wondering will change our relationship, it'll just piss me off. lol Link to comment
Tired Tiger Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 does anyone ever wonder about the next relationship there ex is in or will be in? Sort of, at least if I consider her 'next' relationship could be with me. Again. Other than that... is he/she making them happier then we could? Initially, maybe. That's how people usually act when that have a shiny new object to play with. Revisit that question a few years from now. will they get married/have kids? Highly unlikely, and not something that serves me any purpose to think about anyway. will it last a long/short time? Who knows? I have an ex from my early days that's been married over 25 years to her next guy after me. More power to 'em! Link to comment
TheJerseyKid Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 TBH I'm usually more worried about what MY next relationship is going to be like rather than dwelling on my ex. Link to comment
hermano Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 TBH I'm usually more worried about what MY next relationship is going to be like rather than dwelling on my ex. This. I'm not sure how productive it is to dwell on your ex's hypothetical future relationships Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 TBH I'm usually more worried about what MY next relationship is going to be like rather than dwelling on my ex. Good answer! No harm in dwelling on the ex in a fun way, though. Link to comment
Tryptophan Posted April 28, 2011 Share Posted April 28, 2011 I think about all this stuff all the time. It's mostly what has prevented me from moving on. does anyone ever wonder about the next relationship there ex is in or will be in? Yes, I hope that he will soon find someone so that I can swallow it with lime and salt and then let it go. What kills me is the anticipation of waiting for this to happen. Sometimes it hurts when they move on to someone right away but if you look at it from my outlook, it's actually better because that way you aren't left wondering for a long period of time. It would be easier to see it as, "They've moved on now, I should too". is he/she making them happier then we could? No way in hell that'll ever happen. What we had was special for both of us. It'll always be no matter who comes along. Yeah, she can make him laugh, forget somewhat, distract him, * * * * him real good, but she will never make him as happy as I did. It just doesn't work that way. will they get married/have kids? I hope they do. They would make a great ordinary couple that would last a lifetime. However, I predict it will be somewhat boring and predictable. Companions not lovers. will it last a long/short time? I hope it lasts forever. They're those kind of people. is she pleasing him sexually as well as we could? Not a chance. I also wonder what mine will be like, but I'm not pushing it. I'm happy single. No responsibilities. Link to comment
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