girlfriend??

[melissao39]

The guy i am seeing of about 5 months or so keeps referring to me as my "girl" when talking to others and i have never really been introduced as girlfriend. I know we are exclusevily dating, however i am not sure what he means by my girl, does he mean girlfriend? Can someone help me out please. ( Please dont tell me i should ask him because that makes it akward)

[penelope13]

Actually, yes, you should ask him. If you feel awkward to discuss your relationship with him, something is off.

[eleanor1967]

There's nothing wrong with you asking him about that. You sound like a mature descent girl and if I were, I would ask him in a genuine way !

[metrogirl]

My current boyfriend still calls me that and we have been together 6 years.

[Inquirer89]

Sounds like he may consider you his girlfriend. If you don't feel comfortable with it, you should ask.

[xyou2388]

I have dated a guy for 3 months, and he never mentioned if he looked me as his girlfriend. I asked him the other day: how should I introduce you if we were together and come accross my friend? He answered me immediately: boyfriend. And then I asked: so I am your girlfriend? He answered: Yeah! So, if you have doubt about where you should stand, ask him.

[Inquirer89]

Yeah, good way to go I also have a question to the posters in this thread, if a guy says he isn't 'dating' you yet acts all boyfriendish and wants you in his life, does it mean he considers you his girlfriend still? I mean dating is just a label of what 2 ppl do, but is there really a difference? The whole if it walks like a duck it is a duck? I'm beginning to doubt the whole it has to be labeled as dating to be considered bf/gf relationship. Anyhow, yeah asking is the best way to go.