DigitalSpy Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Hi, I have came out of a 4 year relationship. I am not fully over her yet, so don't want to get into a relationship again because it wouldn't be fair on my new partner. However I do want to start dating again. So I can see who is really out there, and who might be interested in me! And even better I might meet someone that makes me forget about my feelings for my ex. I have never tried to "pull" simply because I met my ex at school. I am now 20 and want to attract/ meet women my age. Where should I go and how can I do this. I don't want to meet girls at clubs ideally, simply because I don't want them seeing me through "beer goggles". thanks in advance Link to comment
DigitalSpy Posted February 25, 2011 Author Share Posted February 25, 2011 25 veiws and not one reply lol....Can anyone give me a few pointers Link to comment
TidalWave Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 I am not fully over her yet,.... ....So I can see who is really out there, and who might be interested in me! Answer this honestly now - Who would want to be interested in a person that has his past not resolved completely? There goes your pointer. lol. Link to comment
DigitalSpy Posted February 25, 2011 Author Share Posted February 25, 2011 Please understand me when I say I am simply looking to date. I'm not over my ex completely, but I don't want her back I want to start a new relationship in time I just don't want to jump right into it. But I want to ease myself into it by dating for a while. When I say I'm not ever her, I feel that the last step is meeting some one new that I can feel a connection with. I am ready to move on, to completely get over her now. so advice is greatly welcomed.. Link to comment
belezah Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 you can meet women everywhere- at the university, at the bookstore, at the coffeeshop. eye contact is the first step. when you see a girl you like- try to make an eye contact to catch her attention. and smile. to let her know you appreciate the way she looks from there on it will follow but you are right to not be in a hurry to jump into a relationship right now. what you need is to meet new people and make new contacts Link to comment
cursedgirl Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 usually you meet people at school/work/library/coffee shop/through friends...then you need to be brave. Link to comment
TidalWave Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 usually you meet people at school/work/library/coffee shop/through friends...then you need to be brave. Brave? Please explain what is there to fear that you need to be brave....lol. Link to comment
iBroken Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Dating will not help you get past your ex. In fact, this is a horrible ticking time bomb waiting to explode. Because you arent over your ex, your ego is likely going to jump at the first sign of attention. Before you know it, you are in a full blown rebound relationship despite only wanting to date. And women dont always want the guy that just got out of a relationship. No one likes being the rebound. Girls especially (Ladies, chime in if Im wrong) If you really crave "attention" from others, hit the bars/clubs. Getting hit on without writing a story about why someone should send you an online message is far more fun Link to comment
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