DO girls like moody guys

[ATLstudent]

I consider my self a moody person at times.....not always...but they do come up at least once a week...just a day...were i am not smiling alot and am pretty moody....DO girls run from this...or this ok for some girls....just wondering if it can be attractive

[eternalsunrise]

Healthy women run from this. If you are already moody, then you're going to have major issues dealing with the drama that a girl who is attracted to this would bring to your life! Try to look into ways you can deal with your moods...there are natural noninvasive therapies available...

[The_Seeker]

Can you provide an example?

[greywolf]

I can't stand moodiness.

[woodc5]

You don't have to be "tough" all the time, but you can't be the type of person that people wonder if they're just trying to get sympathy or want people to feel bad for them, either. Just be conscious of it and you can improve it.

[captchapitcha]

Most non-psychos don't. It's annoying.

[pinkelephant]

omg no,. i'm moody enough for the both of us lol

[FrenchFries]

I'd say no thanks to that. I wouldn't really think a guy would love to have a moody girl on his arm either.

[Cheetarah]

Moodiness is not attractive, no. But it's human nature to not be consistent in mood all the time. You'd have to be on happy pills not to have a stressy day every here and there. There's nothing attractive about it, but I hate when people expect that I'm always going to be big ball of fun with a giant smile plastered all over my face.

 

It all depends on how you handle it. People are much more forgiving when you take the time to explain the source(i.e., "Ugh, my boss just gave me a talking-to", or "I was stuck in traffic for freaking 2 hours", etc). Hey, I don't know...What kind of moodiness ARE you talking about?

 

If your moods are swinging with no obvious source, then I would talk to your GP and maybe learn some relaxation exercises and ways to distract yourself. The mind at work is a ridiculous thing. I like to distract myself with painting and pampering myself. It lifts my mood.

[The_Seeker]

Let me get this straight.

 

If you're moody, you complain 24/7 such as "Are we there yet? I'm hungry." Couple minutes later. "I'm starving, I haven't eaten all day. Oh my god, do you know how many calories is that? Ugh, you're making me sick." Then yeah. that's very unattractive.

 

If you're moody, due to a situation or a problem. "I'm very sad today because my friend said something to hit my insecurity really bad." Then yea I can see it as a fix it problem and that I don't consider such a bad moody like the one above.

[Michele32]

everybody gets in a bad mood once in a while but being moody a lot can get to be a little too much. my brother is moody alll the time and i hate it, he is pushing everyone away from him(unintentionally) by being such an a** all the time. soo, no its not attractive

[Cognitive_Canine]

I'm not a fan of moodiness.

[superfox]

Hate moods.

It's a horrible situation to be in for the other person, treading on eggshells, wondering what youve done wrong, not knowing what mood you're going to be in when you get home, stomach lurching when you hear their key in te door.

 

Never again.

[bulletproof]

Once a week for a whole day seems slightly excessive. I wouldn't want to date someone moody. Life is too short. I would either take on the mood myself, which would not be fun, or I would try to fix it for him, also not very fun. I want to be someone's gf, not his therapist.

[mammadon]

Moody people, as in people who are consistently down in mood or gruff and abrasive, IMO are not fully mentally healthy.

 

To me, humans are a measure of all moods/feelings. I think the idea we should never be negative is just pop psychology. Negative reactions/feelings are just natural in some cases. If somebody hits you, one naturally gets angry. If one's favourite sports team loses a game, one gets miffed. Again, natural, normal and healthy. Negativity IMO is bad if it's persistent. Emotions should be in flux, and even consistent happiness is bad IMO.

 

I'm not a woman, but if I were I would avoid a moody man like the plague. life is too short to be burdened by negative feelings and emotions.

[Seymore]

Chicks love it. Just watch Twilight.

 

I tend to be moody. Usually it's brought on by feeling like someone's taking advantage of me, but I don't take it out on people that aren't involved - those people, I might just be quiet around or vent to. The ones taking advantage of me, I can be sort of a jerk to.

 

Sometimes I'm just "on" all day long, joking, smiling and laughing, and some days I'm just quiet and to myself. Maybe I'm super tired. Maybe I have a lot on my mind. But I don't blow everyone off - I'll say hi and if they talk I'll listen, but I'm not always in the joking around/laughing mood. Nobody's "on" all the time.

[gallop30]

do you like moody girls? don't think you do.

 

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