xcherryx Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 Hi, i was just wondering, how you give a blow job, because i never really thought about it,and the other day my friends and i were all disusing it. thanx Xcherryx, Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 I'm assuming you are a girl, & you are wondering what "techniques" to use. I'm not trying to be insulting but your message is ambigiouis & it could be your a guy & trying to tell your girl, how to do it, so it feels good. Would I would love to hear about this too.... Any guys out there who would like to tell us girls, just exactly, what feels best for you men? Too bad there aren't seminars to explain all this.....lol. Link to comment
theghost Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 just go back and forth....and don't try to move the skin too much...and when you lick the tip don't like too hard and not too long either.... Also don't do the samething for more than a minute, or the guy will get used to it...try diffrent patters...like pretend its a loly pop... Link to comment
June4life Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 Well first and foremost I strongly believe that you only give your boyfriend a blowjob if you honestly care for one another, and not just do it because "everyone else is." There's really no wrong way to do it. Whatever you do, he is going to like. Just don't bite, or scratch him with ur teeth. His penis is very sensitive, and even the slightest bit of ur teeth on his penis can hurt him. It depends on what he likes, but my boyfriend likes if I VERY LIGHTLY bite his penis- basically only so he feels my teeth there. It's definitely not something that can hurt him. It all depends on the guy though, and what he likes. The best thing to do is just ask him! So what you want to know is how to give a blow job. Start by just kissing and making out. Most guys will get extremely excited, or horny from just this, and almost always get an erection. Just go from there. I'm usually laying on my boyfriend when we're making out, and then I can always feel his boner on my leg. From there I just slide down his body, and stop when my face is directly in front of his penis. From there, I always look up at him with "sexy eyes" as I undo his belt, then the button, and zipper and slide his pants down. If you don't want to do this, then you could just undo his zipper and pull his penis out through there, but be careful not to hurt him or scrap his penis against the zipper. I would recommend you just take his pants down completely. When I tried the zipper only method it worked a few times, but then one time I actually scratched his penis on the zipper. Now I will only take down his pants to avoid any injury!!! ((if you do happen to cut him, don't worry, genitals heal extremely fast. Either way, he will still be in pain)) Okay, well now I'll get to the "how" part. I'm right handed. I always grab the base of his penis with my right hand, and I put my mouth over the tip. This is the most sensitive part of his penis, so be gentle, yet determined. Basically, just go up and down in a rhythmic pattern. Don't worry about your mouth going all the way down to the base of his penis. Thats what ur hand is for!!! ....I'll write more later..... gotta go right now!! Link to comment
oxygen_lsv Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 theghost u are wrong... dont pretend its a loly pop.. just suck it and make him moan... cuz if u do it like a lolypop it doesnt feel good.... i'm gay and i knowwat i'm talking about ... lol Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 I can't stress this point enough...... WATCH THE TEETH!!!!!!! Link to comment
June4life Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 Well first and foremost I strongly believe that you only give your boyfriend a blowjob if you honestly care for one another, and not just do it because "everyone else is." There's really no wrong way to do it. Whatever you do, he is going to like. Just don't bite, or scratch him with ur teeth. His penis is very sensitive, and even the slightest bit of ur teeth on his penis can hurt him. It depends on what he likes, but my boyfriend likes if I VERY LIGHTLY bite his penis- basically only so he feels my teeth there. It's definitely not something that can hurt him. It all depends on the guy though, and what he likes. The best thing to do is just ask him! So what you want to know is how to give a blow job. Start by just kissing and making out. Most guys will get extremely excited, or horny from just this, and almost always get an erection. Just go from there. I'm usually laying on my boyfriend when we're making out, and then I can always feel his boner on my leg. From there I just slide down his body, and stop when my face is directly in front of his penis. From there, I always look up at him with "sexy eyes" as I undo his belt, then the button, and zipper and slide his pants down. If you don't want to do this, then you could just undo his zipper and pull his penis out through there, but be careful not to hurt him or scrap his penis against the zipper. I would recommend you just take his pants down completely. When I tried the zipper only method it worked a few times, but then one time I actually scratched his penis on the zipper. Now I will only take down his pants to avoid any injury!!! ((if you do happen to cut him, don't worry, genitals heal extremely fast. Either way, he will still be in pain)) Okay, well now I'll get to the "how" part. I'm right handed. I always grab the base of his penis with my right hand, and I put my mouth over the tip. This is the most sensitive part of his penis, so be gentle, yet determined. Basically, just go up and down in a rhythmic pattern. Don't worry about your mouth going all the way down to the base of his penis. Thats what ur hand is for!!! Use it to your advantage, he won't be able to tell the difference. Change it up as you go along. If you do the same thing over and over he will get bored with it, and it wont feel good to him anymore. However, when he is about to cum, just do the same thing until he tells u to stop. If u change it up then, he might not cum at that moment. IT depends on what you want to do when he is about to cum. You can swallow his ejaculate, you can spit it out. Whatever you want to do, you should do. Many guys think its hot for their girl to swallow it, but thats totally up to you. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, and I haven't swallowed it yet. If you want to, put a condom on him, and that way when he cums you dont have to worry about getting messy. ((Strawberry flavored condoms are really yummy)) If you don't have a condom handy, try getting a warm washcloth. When my boyfriend is about to cum I put the WARM washcloth over his penis, and give him a handjob until he spurts. My boyfriend loves this. He says it feels so real, and he loves it. It also is easy cleanup. Just let him squirt it all in the washcloth, then wipe him off, and all you have to do is rinse the washcloth out. It works well!! The best advice I can give you is to stay safe. Sometimes this may lead to other things. He may want to give you oral. Are you comfortable with that? And also this may lead to other things like intercourse. Just be safe, use condoms. Talk to your mom about going on birth control. My mom told me she wanted me on it so that she didn't have to worry about me doing things with my boyfriend. She told me, "I know what I was doing when I was 17, and if you're doing 1/2 of what I did, I want you on the pill" Now i've been on the pill for a little over a month and love it. I still haven't had sex only because I'm not ready to. It's a personal choice. Just be safe!!!!! Private Message me if you want more info or techniques. Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 I have a news flash for you girls. You can get AIDS from giving a guy head. I got this news directly from my doctor. Just giving you a heads up! There's lot of stuff out there you don't want to catch. Know your partner well! Link to comment
June4life Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 wow sadie, I wasn't aware of that! .....im safe in my case considering my boyfriend and I are both virgins and neither of us have any sort of diseases! thanks for the "heads" up Link to comment
xcherryx Posted July 6, 2004 Author Share Posted July 6, 2004 wow guys and girls thanx for all the help! and i wasnt aware that you can get AIDS from giving "head"...... thanx again... Link to comment
blowfish Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 In the words of NWA's "Just don't Bite It" "What Do You want me to do with it?" "No Matter Just Don't Bite It." Link to comment
brokenpogostick Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 i would say that you want to give the balls a little attention too while you're either licking, sucking, or stroking the actual penis. be gentle with the balls, while more firm with the penis. combine sucking motions on the top 1/2 of the penis, while stroking the bottom half of the penis with your hand. also, look into his eyes at times... excellente!!! Link to comment
June4life Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Oh yeah! I forgot about that!! MY boyfriend likes it when I have one hand holding the base of his penis, my mouth over the tip, and my left hand massaging his balls. Do this- I guarantee he'll come within minutes ;-) Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 You should know about AIDS, comon pay attention in health class (yes I know its boring) Link to comment
xcherryx Posted July 7, 2004 Author Share Posted July 7, 2004 hey ya we no about AIDS now, and i never really took health class i always got out of it!!!!! xcherryx Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 ooo It's required at my highschool (some kind of awareness program with drugs,sex, etc.. all that good stuff) Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Are we still on the subject of blowjobs, lol? I have a question for the girls on the panel. How did you learn to give a blowjob......? Did you bf direct you or did you just try it out on your own? I remember reading alot of dirty books when i was in high school. Happy Hooker was one of them. Xavier was pretty description on her daliences (sp?) with men. Maybe I learned that way, who knows. All I know is my bf was a really good lover & liked to go down on me. It always felt so incredible & mindblowing I felt it would be rude not to reciprocate. He always seemed to like it, : ) & never complained about how i did it. Isn't oral sex great? Link to comment
xcherryx Posted July 7, 2004 Author Share Posted July 7, 2004 eh, i dont no, but hey i think that i might have to take it, im only gonna be a sophmore.... so i might have t0 take it my junior or senior year,(S) xcherryx Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 At my school it is required Sophomore year, I'm only going to be a Junior Link to comment
sunnihunni Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 To answer your question Sadie... well...for starters...i posted a question about it here! lol but basically...i just went for it...and my b/f told me what he like and what felt good! Link to comment
June4life Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 sunni, thats exactally what i did too. I had no idea what the hell I was doing, but by the moans and cries coming from my boyfriend I knew it had to be something good! I also did a lot of reading about it too, just to know what to do and what not to do Link to comment
psga Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Are we still on the subject of blowjobs, lol? I have a question for the girls on the panel. How did you learn to give a blowjob......? Did you bf direct you or did you just try it out on your own? well it was a bit of both.. my bf sorta gently guided my head down and I just did it and i knew what felt good by his reactions Link to comment
girlinterrupted Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 hmm...i think that if you just read advice from those who have done it before...it will be easier to do...you'll at least have some sort of a guide line... my friend and i used to read info about how to do it from some "experts"...now my friend has a bf and he says she's amazing at it... so i guess getting advice before hand really helps... don't know first hand tho...(i haven't done it yet.) Link to comment
sunnihunni Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 yeah...getting advice from other ppl always helps. itll give you a better sense of what to do and what to expect so youre not totally caught off guard! but trust me...most guys will let you know just what they want and what feels good! Link to comment
Serendipity1607307077 Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 If you twist it whilst going up and down (gently!!!) I find that's pretty nifty for getting your guy off... Link to comment
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