Couldn't get over fling, we are back together (he is divorced) but he is being very weird!

[linda1984]

Hi,

 

Please read my previous threads.

 

So after 3 weeks of heartache, divorced guy comes back to me on Sunday. He wants to be with me. But he is different to what he usually was. He hardly texts me or calls, and we haven't seen eachother since Sunday. I texted him today asking him when I'm going to see him again, he just hasn't replied.

 

When we were together previously we couldn't get enough of eachother, now I am not sure what is going on. Does anyone have experience in this??

[sidehop]

No one is going to be ready for any serious commitment right after a divorce nor should you expect him to act like he wants you constantly. It's going to take some time.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

It sounds like this guy has been continually jerking you around. Perhaps rather than settling for scraps since you just got out of your own relationship, take some time to learn how to be single and love it...once you do you may not be willing to accept scraps from someone.

[coolchick64]

Hey Linda,

 

I posted a thread about pie crust reconciliations (easily made, easily broken) awhile back. It sounds like you might be heading into that territory. My advice is to be bold about what you need and expect from him. Don't be mean but don't be meek. If he can't handle it, so be it.

 

Here's a link to that thread if you're interested: