huge setback

[verisad]

I thought I was ok... Its been 6 months. I coped fine with his first relationship... But this one?! She's 15, he's 17 - so that's quite a difference at our age. I was really in love with him and nothing comes close to what we had. His new girlfriend was his best friend, they were like brother and sister but I never expected them together. I feel sick it just hurts so much!

[BriarRose]

Verisad, I am giving you a big cyber-hug. I hope you feel better. Its hard when you think they are just friends and you learn it has become more. This pain will pass. I know you don't believe that now, but it will.

[Xylitol]

You can't expect people to be lonely and constantly available just for you. If you let someone go, you should expect them to keep leading their life. Would you be more happy if they'd be crying over the relationship forever? That's not the way to go either. You should move on as well.

[DeenasRhino]

You shouldn't care if he has a new partner or not. Try to focus on yourself and don't check up on his life.