was i used?

[lifeissocruel]

hey guys little confused but just wanting some new info where shes at or what.

 

okay anyways i liked this girl for awhile now we were going to get together and all that but her x that she is in love with came back to her.

hes a real jerk and hits her and cheats on her.

she gets tired of him and i am there for her when she needs me.

 

She ends up cheating on him with me and shows me that this could lead to something. anyways her boyfriend and her broke up now and now she shows no intrest in me at all. like a whole diffrent relationship.

 

is it cause shes in love with the guy and needs time to adjust?

i dunno what to think of her right now.

someone please inliten me what might be going through her head.

[foxie_vixie]

sounds as though she isn't ready for a new relationship. she was vunerable and wanted someone to look after her and unfortunately, you got used. the best thing you can do is step back and just be a friend as i don't think she wants anything from anyone at the moment. don't let her some to you when she wants some TLC, you have to let her know you'll support her but only as a friend, nothing more - otherwise you will get walked all over.

 

i hope i've been some use!

good luck xx