brazilgirl21 Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 This is funny, to say the least! I joined ENA on February of 2009 when I was DEVASTATED over a break-up with my first boyfriend whom I dated for 3 years. The first months were cruel. The first year was faily hard. But, June 29th of 2010 was his birthday and I completely forgot about it. I didn't even think of it. I have fallen in love again and am currently hurting over someone else... But still, I could never believe I would ever forget his birthday. I remember just last year I counted the days to it... I have ZERO urge to talk to him. ZERO urge to send him an e-mail. It's just over. It passed. We aren't part of eachother's lives anymore and I'm ok about it now. I accept it. It's part of life!! Wow. Hang in there guys. Time heals all wounds. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 Yay!!! That's awesome! I'm really happy to hear that! I remember being glad when I forgot my ex's b-day too...or other "important" dates. It's an awesome milestone! You should feel very proud. Link to comment
arwen Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 Oh, that is SUCH a great milestone! I realized I forgot his birthday for the first time last year... strange, huh? We broke up in 2003, I am married and have a baby, and still the b-day would always remember me of the Ex. Congrats! Link to comment
moving Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 Haha, this happened to me too this year re: my first ex. In June 2008, I was so devastated that I couldn't celebrate his birthday with him. This year I completely forgot about it, until - Googling old emails for something completely separate - I came accross an email I'd written two years ago, mentioning that his birthday was the final week of June. What a difference two years makes! This year, I didn't know, and I didn't care. Time really does take care of things. Congrats to you as well! Link to comment
DeenasRhino Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 I hope that I'm able to do this too. Her birthday is in March and we broke up during May. So that would be about 10 months. Hopefully that will be enough time to erase these stupid memories still lingering in my head. Link to comment
hater13 Posted June 30, 2010 Share Posted June 30, 2010 hahah that's awesome! His birthday was a week after the breakup so obviously I didn't forget, I started no contact with him the night before I wished him an early birthday. His repose "you know just because you said it now, doesn't mean you were the first one to wish me" how rude. btw I hope Brazil wins the world cup Link to comment
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