verisad Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 I did NOT expect this in a million years... He text just now saying 'You know one of the main reasons I left you was because of me going away. I knew I was going last year x' Last thing he text me was in march saying 'Maybe cuz you were seeing someone else whist going out with me. I can't be dealing with some pshyco chick. We are not together, so don't text me. I don't care about you, or your family after what you did to me and my family. So goodbye and f you.' We broke up in Jan. I ended it. Please please read my other topics to see what happened. He got a gf in march. We stopped seeing eachother in feb. Would really love some detailed responses... Still quite shocked... you should have seen my face!! Link to comment
verisad Posted June 27, 2010 Author Share Posted June 27, 2010 37 views and no replys? Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 Well I think we all need more details. I do not understand what you want to hear. You broke up with him so who cares if he contacts you or what he says unless you want him back. Then we may be able to understanded better how to respond and give input. Link to comment
DeenasRhino Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 Not sure what to say. His text says you cheated on him and after reading your other threads you said that was not true. You both moved on since then and have seen other people. Do you want him back? Do you care about him? If not then maintain NC. Link to comment
Cheetarah Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 If you ask people to wade through your other posts instead of linking to a thread or giving a brief background, you may not get responses in less than 45 mins. So please give us that so we can offer some sound opinions. Link to comment
verisad Posted June 27, 2010 Author Share Posted June 27, 2010 Sorry. I ended in in jan because he was lying to me for a long time. Regretted my decision immediately but he didn't want me back. I wanted to get back with him ever since. I can't say I've 'moved on' but I'm better in myself and my life has actually greatly improved (I got a horse, see my mum more often etc, work alot more). I'd love to be with him again...we just..click. But he's moved away..which would be tricky. And I don't get any vibes that he wants to be with me. Link to comment
verisad Posted June 27, 2010 Author Share Posted June 27, 2010 Here is a link to what happened Link to comment
Cheetarah Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 You two may click, but at what expense? And do you really? Because when two people share a solid, deep connection - They don't chronically lie, say intentionally hurtful things, sleep with you and toss you to the side. Apparently, you've done something that you're unaware of, and you were punished for it. Sounds like a twisted mind game, pass-the-responsibility-buck kind of game. My guess is that it's problematic over there on his end with the girl. People love to do that. Reach into the hat and pull out a name when things turn rocky. You're doing better. Don't toss that away for a minute chance to be with a jerk. Link to comment
DeenasRhino Posted June 27, 2010 Share Posted June 27, 2010 You two may click, but at what expense? And do you really? Because when two people share a solid, deep connection - They don't chronically lie, say intentionally hurtful things, sleep with you and toss you to the side. Apparently, you've done something that you're unaware of, and you were punished for it. Sounds like a twisted mind game, pass-the-responsibility-buck kind of game. You're doing better. Don't toss that away for a minute chance to be with a jerk. Agreed. And that last line is really something you should read over and over until you get the picture. Link to comment
verisad Posted June 28, 2010 Author Share Posted June 28, 2010 Thanks for the replies Link to comment
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