Sam _ Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 I'm used to being in relationships where I can actually do things with the girl I'm dating. Me and this one girl have been dating for almost 9 months and things have pretty much died down in the past couple months. -She is 16, 17 this fall. I'm turning 21. We have to lie to her parents and just about everyone else about my age so her parents don't find out I'm not 18. Her parents automatically don't approve of guys if they're 2+ years older than her. -She isn't allowed to go hang out without them. Especially not with guys, since apparently we're all doing nothing but waiting to have sex with a girl and nothing else. In order to see each other she HAS to lie about it. Says she has to go to the library for an hour. If they find out shes seeing me without their permission, they will clamp down even harder on her. We've literally only had one date and can only see each other for 2 hours at a time. And we can only see each other twice a week due to my tight work and college schedule. -We've had sex, but we haven't at all in the past 2 weeks because one of us is usually either stressed or tired for one reason or another. -No arguments or fights. I'm generally pretty good at talking and keeping fights from breaking out while still resolving a situation. Neither of us NEVER have anything new going on. Therefore, we have nothing to talk about. This is especially true for me because nothing of interest has really gone on. So basically our conversations are nothing more than "How was your day" and "Love you, goodnight". We have to wait until she is 18 until we can see each other like an actual couple. However, as soon as she is 18 she is going to a 4-year university and the nearest one is 50 miles away. I just started a 2-year university. We plan on moving in with each other as soon as possible. However, is a little over two years from now before that happens. Until then, this will likely be how things will be until then. Maybe with the last couple months with us not being able to see each other at all due to her being 50 miles away while I'm still in the local Tech College. I want to make this work because she is the best GF I've ever had and she says the same about me being the best BF she's ever had. Meaning I've never hit her, cheated, yelled, or treated her bad at all and actually romance her and make her feel happy. According to her, no other guy has done that and I'm in the same boat. Any advice on how to continue to make this work? By the way, talking to her parents won't work. She's already tried it and so have I. They are nuts about me, but I can't stand them because they berate her and insult her as badly as possible for little things. The most recent being her not putting her money in her wallet the "correct" way. Link to comment
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