DjSystemz Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 So apparently I haven't been on here for two years which is a good sign because that means I haven't had an issue until today. So i'm dating a really cute by kind of shy girl for 7 months now. Our relationship is excellent because we both have trust in one another and have never had an argument until today. So last night I get invited to go to a local lounge with her and her two friends. So I agree and I meet up with them around 11pm and we hang out there until 2am. Her best friends decides to go get a couple of grocery items at a local wal mart so we agree to tag along with her. After wards we went back to her place and had great sex. The night was fun and silly and me and my gf had a great time just being together no matter if we do the stupidest things This is how it always is. The next morning around 10am I talk to her and she tells me she wants to go out to a club tonight around 11pm. I tell her that I would go and it would be a good time to go with her friends and my friends. Then I bring up that we should all go to dinner around 7pm at this really nice restaurant near the club we planned on going. She told me that she didn't know yet. So i told her to think about it and get back to me. 5pm rolls around and I ask her if she wants to go out to dinner with me and my friends (note that she has never hung out with my friends before and they are perfect gentlemen) She tells me she has too much school work and she needs the time to do it because it's due Monday night. Note that today is Friday and she is a Freshman at a Community College and only taking two very basic classes and she currently doesn't have a job. Then I ask her if shes still is going to the club at 11pm and she tells me yes. Now I don't mind her going out at all, im not the type that gets jealous. It bothers me that she doesn't want to go to dinner with me before hand. What was she doing from 10am-5pm today? Shes making a bull * * * * excuse not to go for whatever reason and it feels like a slap in the face that shes going out tonight to a club. This isn't the first time this has happened. This happens very frequently. So this is what i told her. "Im not going to force you to go anymore, every time I try to do something with you and some people you give me a cold shoulder and give me a lame excuse, text me when you get home from the club so I know you got home safe" She replies with an ok and at 9pm tonight she asks "are you going to the club". Im obviously not if i told you to text me when you get back from there! So i replied with "no not tonight" And just right now I get a text asking why im not talking to her. So who is in the wrong here? I sacrifice my time to go out with your friends but you wont sacrifice yours to come to dinner with me for two measly hours? Something isn't right. Thanks for reading and give me some feedback. Also note that she isnt cheating on me if this is what your thinking. Link to comment
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