Brigade Posted May 17, 2010 Share Posted May 17, 2010 I just signed up to this site. I really need some advice. My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 8 months now. We were together for over 7 years and I was the one who broke things off. I broke up with with her because there was something I had been asking of her for long time that she wasn't giving me. For about 7 of the 8 months that we have been apart I knew that my ex still loved me and wanted to be with me and we still communicated on a pretty regular basis whether it be through texts, emails, or phone calls. Well from one week to the next she changed completely. She doesn't answer my texts or calls anymore and all she tells me is that she doesn't want to talk to me or have anything to do with me. My sister talked to my ex and my ex's reason for ignoring me like this is that her friends convinced her that she needs to let me go completely because if she sticks around long enough to see me meet somebody else, she's going to hurt even more. But I don't want to meet anybody else. I had been wanting to tell her that I wanted her back when I found out that she doesn't want to talk to me. She says she's not seeing anybody else because she doesn't want to and because she's not ready, but I'm not so sure. I've sent her text messages and voice mails telling her that I love her and miss her and want her back but all she tells me is that she's moved on, that she doesn't want to talk to me, and to leave her alone. She also tells me that she just simply forgot about me. I refuse to believe that she just forgot about me since were together for so long and just a couple of months ago she still loved me. The couple of times that I've talked to her since she started acting like this she says that I'm bugging her and that it's over and she's said it with anger. I've stopped texting or calling her for five days now because I don't want to push her away. Do you think that I still have a chance to get her back or is it over for good? During the time that we've been apart, I've realized that she's the one for me and I feel so sad and depressed because she won't even talk to me now. I don't know what to do. Any advice you I can get will be greatly appreciated. Thank you. Link to comment
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