Bea123 Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 I posted a couple days ago explaining the emotionally abusive situation I was in before and I got some really great feedback, I decided to end the relationship, but I am unfortunately very fragile to the person I am in love with. He knows exactly how to hurt me and uses it to his advantage. Today I spoke to him about ending the relationship and tried to get his point of view and most of what I got back were hateful comments. He said how I'm the reason for all his problem and how he feels that he's better off without me in his life and when I asked him what I did wrong he simply said "you lived" It truly hurts bad to have someone tell you all the things he said when you believed that they love you and now I cant seem to stop crying over it. Yes, I am upset about the relationship being over for the simple fact that he has a 5 year old that I am very much in love with and have been taking care of her from the beginning of the relationship. It hurts to know I will miss her birthday and her soccer games but I know its also better for her. Yet, I guess I've known the relationship was over for awhile but I also didn't expect the pain to continue after the break up. I can't get the hurtful things out of my head and it's making me doubt I am strong enough to start over, and I have absolutely no idea where to go from here. How do I stop hurting and start over? -hurt and confused Link to comment
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