LilyJane Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 So this post is about two guys... I met Mark* in a class close to three years ago. I had a crush on him at the time and we would talk a lot during/after class, but we never dated because I had a boyfriend (who is long gone) and I have no idea if he ever had feelings. But, despite that, Mark and I have been "facebook friends" for some time. We talk online a lot and text, but have never once hung out. Now, there is another guy Jay* in a class I currently have (ending next week), and again, I find myself in a situation where I am crushing on someone, see a potential good friendship, but really don't want it to fall to the wayside of just being a facebook friend situation. I want to become better friends with both of them, but I don't want to end up being too flirty or leading them on. I have a boyfriend whom I am very happy with; I tend to get crushes on others when I find myself needing some friends other than the SO. It's just that I can never find that perfect balance between being too light or too strong. Any suggestions are highly appreciated. I am a very shy person, so when I find people I want to be friends with, I don't want to lose that. *names are changed Link to comment
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