msDazed_N_Confused

Day 3 I noticed he didn't block me from his IM...cause i could see he was online. But i controlled myself and didn't contact. Why is this soooo hard?

Will you please contact me today? I want to hear your voice....

Ok...the first 24 hrs of NC have passed...and i am doing fine!! No not really....Everyday i wake up thinking "i can do this" and everyday when i get further on into the day i think "i miss you soooo much" I can't believe i feel this heartbroken...i just want him to tell me we are ok...hell i just want him to talk to me. Oh well...i am keeping my head held high to the outside world, and cry on my own if i have the chance.

Why do you ignore me... Don't i mean anything to you Was it just a game Talk to me please, i miss you soooo much Why can't we just start over again? I have such a long way to go....and it wasn't even a proper relationship

*Sighs* I was in the NC Challenge 3,5 yrs ago when my ex broke up with me after 7 yrs....and now i am back. Relationship...too short, can't even call it that...put my feelings on table and he rejected me, well actually he ignored me ever since. And the rejection hurts, i cried my eyes out for days. Texted way too much again and realized....i have done this before. And this time it will not take me 2 years to get over him, i won't allow it. But i need you guys...sooooo much, cause i want to text him 10.000 times a day, begging him to stop ignoring me. Deleted his number to avoid drunk dialling, desperate dialling and accidental dialling....deleted him from IM cause i don't want to see how he logs on and ignores me even more. This morning was the last text....NC starts now!!!

hello all....wow i haven't been here for over a year and just realized i entered this challenge too. This post might not really belong here but.... Well the status so far, i haven't been in contact with my ex since march 2007. I did have some contact with relatives of him until december last year. But i am now at the point that there is no chance in hell i would want him back. I remember being so desperate to hear from him for the first year or so, but now i am focussing my energy on finding someone new and better....i know this is the "getting together" part of the forum but really. The no contact challenge in the end makes you so much stronger and helps you sit back and have the overview to decide what it is you want from a partner. It could be it lands you back in the arms of your ex for good, but it might very well land you in the arms of someone new that is gonna be so much better for you... I want to thank everyone here that have been so supportive in the start of my journey alone, and now i am moving my ass to another forum....cause i met this really nice guy and i just need tips to reel him in.... Hugs!

I made it to day number 30 I didn't think 30 days ago that i would be feeling better. Slowly progressing, to the point that when i have a busy day at work i only think of him while waiting at the coffeemachine. Let's hope by day 60, i am not counting anymore. To get over a long term relationship, 30 days might just not be enough. To all of you, stay strong and focus on yourself. If i can do it, anyone can!!

I just been dumped after 7+ years for some strange reasons. We never had big arguments we never cheated on eachother, i stood by him during very tough times and he just upped and left. I tried to talk to him once after 2 weeks and that ended badly. Tried to contact by text during the 2 weeks after that but got one reply saying, i don't want to have anything to do with you. Can't believe you love someone one day and the next day you leave. I'm here for the cure and my aim is not 30 days but forever.....however, it is sooooooo hard to NC, i am entering day 2 and i need all the support i can get....or duct tape!